Why he is always a nightmare to me?

Question

I had a very best friend when I was a child but for some reasons I broken all terms with him and infact I don't want to see him ever again ...but every now and then I see him in my dreams and i want to get rid of this.......any suggestion?

Answer 1

If you dream of people you know, this may be your unconscious making you aware of qualities and feelings that you desire. The feelings that your interaction with them gives you expresses will be those you are becoming aware of in real life.

Answer 2

u got a slightly g*y feeling about him, not kidding it's okay we all men have that kind of feelings sometimes, it's deep stuff that doesn't usually get to the surface of our minds.

Answer 3

There seems to be one of two things occurring here.  .  . Scenario #1:

This friend traumatized you severely.  Obviously you wouldn't have cut all ties for no reason.  It may seem impossible, but in your nightmares, you can take control of the outcome.  My young son suffered a serious trauma at the hands of 5 children.  He often has nightmares of the children holding him down and he can't get past it.  You can't prevent the nightmares from occurring, but you can take control in the nightmare.  The first thing I told him to do, was call on the name of Jesus - to simply say Jesus, HELP me!  This, in itself, will make him aware that he's not alone in the dream.  I then empowered him with the ability to wake himself from the dream.  As difficult as it may seem, you can arrest the nightmare.  It may take some practice.  Determine in your mind that you will not allow this person to rob you of your security, or put you in a state of fear.  Don't allow them to have that kind of authority over your life!  When you allow them to conquer you in your nightmares, they have proven once again, that they are in control of your life.  In the boat during a storm, Jesus spoke "Peace Be Still..."  and the winds ceased.   You have that same power within you!

Scenario #2:

This scenario is much less dramatic.  .   .

Maybe its not fear that you are feeling, but something he did has you repulsed and you are determined not to be associated with him.   Ever so often he is back in your thoughts, not necessarily your nightmares.  In this I see the  growth beyond what took place with your childhood friend.

You are still angry with him, and determined to keep him at a distance, but something within you is asking you to reach out in forgiveness.  Only you can determine which of the two is correct.  Not enough information was given to make an adequate determination.  If this is the correct assumption, it would appear that you are being asked to swallow your pride, and show that you've grown beyond what happened.  You truly might be asked to be the bigger person, if this is the appropriate juncture. Or, it may be nothing more than you allowing forgiveness in your own heart - without  offering a point of contact to your previous friend.  Sometimes we are asked to let things go - to remove the hold that this person has over us.  You've heard that we, ourselves, are the only one who suffers when we refuse to forgive.  The person with whom we are harboring the feelings against, feels nothing, and usually has no idea the damage they have caused in our life.  Once again, you control the impact this person remains to have over your life.

Answer 4

This is your higher self telling you what you already know that you are judging someone and it goes against what you know to be 'right'