Why i'm I having trouble to get pregnant or why I can't get pregnant?

Question

ok I have been married for 7 months already and almost every single week or every 15 day's I'm having inter course with my husband and I'm not even 5 or six month's pregnant .. my doctor says is because I'm over weight and that can't be cause my husband cousin is much more over weight than me and she is giving birth this october..I weight 165 plus my height is 4.11 (I know height doesn't has to do anything with this but I want u to know)

why do I have such a bad luck or can it be that my husband drinks depakote er pill to control his seizures? can that be it!! can it be that since I get my period every 5 or 4 month's and it really has to be each month? please help me what can i do so i can be able to have a baby...

ps: i'm 24 years old and i do not want to wait until I'm in the 30 to have a baby no way jose...

well any way's thank u for ur advise..

Answer 1

first off, relax, and stop stressing...Have you been to fertilityFriend.com yet? that site is free, and amazing, it will teach you all about recording your temperatures, so you will know around the time you ovulate.

*Buy a basal Body thermometer

*Learn how to record your temps (fertility friend does this for you).

*check for fertile cervical mucus, the clear, egg white, stretchy discharge is the most fertile, and you should make love every time you see this, however not all woman make this, so even Watery discharge is considered fertile.

* I used ovulation predictor kits for only 2 months, just to help give me a baseline of what my cycles were like, after that i stopped buying them~ waste of money, honestly

*Take a prenatal pill or multivitamin everyday to make your body it's healthiest.

* I recommend the book the book "Taking Charge of Your fertility" thousands of woman swear by this book.

By reading this book, i learned so much about my body, my fertility and fell pregnant w/ baby # 3 after only three months of trying. years ago, it took us 19 months of trying randomly.

Personally, i stopped using OPK's because they only stressed me out and were expensive. We kind of stopped "trying" the last month and just used my natural fertility signs to time intercourse. We had dinner, drinks (although I'd watch the alcohol intake, as it was very moderate), we relaxed, and enjoyed s*x, sure enough it happened.

After love making, theres no need to hang upside down or put your legs against the wall, positions honestly don't make a huge difference either, as long as you stay in bed with a pillow or two under your hips for thirty minutes you'll be fine. Make this as natural as possible.

My last bit of advise, Don't talk about it constantly, in fact try not to bring it up a whole lot, this will take the stress off of him, and you too. & NEVER SAY TO YOUR PARTNER RIGHT BEFORE s*x: "ok, it;s time, I'm ovulating" That is a real mood killer and believe it or not, it may cause him to ejaculate less if he's not that into it!!! You want him to preform at his best, and have a good ejaculation.

Good LucK and happy baby dancing!!! Remember relax, and enjoy your selfs, it will happen!!!

Answer 2

execss weight can interfer with fertilization. and just cause one over weight person can get preg at 200 pounds doesnt mean someone smaller but still over weght wont have problems. but since i do agree that your doctor should have at least tested to see if you are ovulating properly i would suggest that you switch docs or demand your doc to run some test  

Answer 3

U to should try praying together and keeping ur hope. have fun while trying and try not to stress about this.. good luck i hope u get a + soon

Answer 4

I think the main concern is only getting your period every 4 or 5 months.  You should be having a normal cycle which they say is anything from 26 to 42 days.  I would go to your doctor and have them check for PCOS (this can also be related to your weight). Best of Luck!

Answer 5

depends on what kind of seizure meds hes on...but it sounds like you aren't ovulating regularly...you should ask your doc about fertility meds or to get some test done...good luck :o)

Answer 6

Okay, so. First off, your period is irregular. You're not ovulating every month. To induce your period and ovulation, I reccomend taking the liquid form of Vitex (it works faster than the pill). Also, chart your BBT on an online charting site, like fertilityfriend.com, so you can tell about when you're ovulating. Alot of the women on here are extremely helpful as well, so if you have any questions, feel free to ask. You can email me as well. Good luck:)