Why i am i so scared of gaymen?the thing is i am g*y?

Question

i am not,but every time i see someone i think is g*y i get scared,if they act abit flamboyant or overly g*y i feel embarrassed, i am not sure if its because at this point in my life i am still notcomfortable with myself due to the fact that i am g*y

Answer 1

Because your scared of not being accepted! But there's nothing at all to be worried about. Just be yourself and I'm sure everyone will love the true you.  

Answer 2

most likely because you still have a few latent issues with homophobia. Deep down you still fear it and when you see these flamboyant people, you project yourself into them, see you doing the same things.

Don't worry, you can look at it as a  measure of your acceptance level of yourself! once your not scared or embarrassed, you've probably long accepted yourself as a g*y man.

Answer 3

i think that someone's shy!  i think that you get embarrassed because you believe that there is a possibility for you to hook up with them ( or at least you could be "appraised" as to how date-able you are, which is like getting x-rayed out with them examining you ).

Answer 4

It sounds as if you have not quite discovered your sexuality your self, this is new, it like when middle schoolers have there first crush but there scared to talk to the other person, there not quite comfortable, but it will come, just keep trying to expanded your comfort zone. Maybe go out with some friends who are girls, people can think what they want to think and no has to know weather your g*y or strait, and when your ready you can approach other guys.    

Answer 5

I feel the same way.

When I see a g*y guy I always try to tone down my actions & I feel embarrassed inside, but no-one else knows.

Answer 6

You'll get used to it :) I used to puke mentally at the thought of 2 guys kissing. Now I dream about it ;)

It's something that takes time, but I can assure you, it gets easier.