Why i am so confused between me and my elder sister.please help <span title="me?????????????????????????????">me???????????????????????...</span>

Question

my sis is 12 yrs elder 2 me and i am now 20 . i completed my graduation in philosophy this year and secured 1st class and my sis has just completed her SYBCOM years back.she has not completed her graduation.now the prob is i have got a job apportunity near our area , earlier what we had decided was that either one of us will do a job and the other will be at home .now what should i do the qualification required for this post matches both of our profile and we both are eligible but i fear that if we both attend the interview and if she is rejected than she will be hurted coz i am a graduate and she is not.though i got a call from the recruitment firm first, actually she is also looking for a job and even i ,the one who gets the opportunity first will work first,i have always given my sis the respect of a mother in my life,i am afraid what should i do should i go seperate or we both should go together ,going together was her decision, but stil i am confused.

Answer 1

I can really understand ur situatuion...i suggest as u have sepnt all teh joys and sadness of the life together why hide and go...if she gets to know thta u also have attended the interview and by ur hardwork are also through it then what will u reply to her.. she might feel deceived...instead of that u can tell her first let her attend the interview and then u attend informing her saying or givng some reasons u r not prepared for the interview and all such things...u can even say &#039; if u want that i shud go first for the interview...i will tell u all teh questions they ask in that&#039;...give some reasons..but better avoid going together...if atall selected in the interview and she is not ..u can give her reasons saying the interviewer hardly asked any questions and was ina hurry / not having much knowledge selected me..i hope this helps

Answer 2

u r really a nice person, i appreciate ur feelings.

i think its better if you go &amp; share your feeling with your sister as she is much elder then you so don&#039;t worry she can understand your feeling &amp; she definitely help you to get out of this.

&amp; as u told that she decided to go together its shows that she is above such things for which you are afraid.

take care &amp; good luck to both of you

Answer 3

Think clearly

If ur sis gets the job later on she may gat chucked out coz she&#039;s not a Grad

Please Freely talk to her

Share all worries and sort out things systamatically

Both give interviews and see what the results are

Most of all PRAY about the whole in  

Answer 4

I think you should share your feelings with your sister. It seems as though if your sister is 32 years old she should be mature enough to accept your being hired for a position over her.