Why i feel very nervous?

Question

I am 20. I and my bf plan for a wedding. We already pick the place and decided the date. but , why i am so nervous. we had s*x many times but when i'll have s*x w/ him after married , i am veryyy nervous. why?

Answer 1

You have to answer why you are nervous. Are you nervous about the big day because its a big event or because you are not sure you want to marry him?

Answer 2

Its perfectly normal to feel nervous. Its a big decision and your life is going to change. Don't worry as long as you two love each other and you know for sure that you are making the right decision than you will be just fine.  

Answer 3

It is normal... You are taking a big step in your life and it is very normal for you to have nervous spells. Hopefully after the wedding you will have all the s*x that you want.  

Answer 4

in high school, i had the mottoe "you only get nervous when you're unprepared"... maybe once you get all the dteails and everything set- no more thinking or worries... you'll quit being nervous. when the day came when i married my husband, all i had to do was wake up, get my hair done, and get dressed... and that whole time, i wasn't nervous- i was excited. i was SO EXCITED to marry him...  but leading up to it though, i was nervous because i didn't know how everything would flow or pan out that day.

i think you're more nervous about the planning... if you find yourself getting closer to the date, pretty close, and you still feel this way. step out for a breather for some alone time...like sit on a park bench and just think about it.

if you're still questioning it leading up to it, ask yourself why? if you really love him, would you question it?

hope ith elps!