Why is age difference such a big issue in this world?

Question

39 y.o ald 20 y.o...why is it such a no-no?

Answer 1

It's mostly just older women and younger guys who complain about age gaps (young women who do it are just mimicking older women.). You see, older woman and younger male doesn't work as well as older man younger woman. It doesnt produce as many marriages. Rather than working harder to make that union work, they chose to prey on older man younger woman couples and try to make those couples work LESS via cultural vilification and tabooization..

And there is definitely a certain arrogance involved.

"I'm a 16m. If I date someone over  30, she's  a hotttt momm!. If my female peer falls in love with someone over 30, he's a pedo!".

After 18, nothing changes (like its supposed to). They just find different labels.

"I'm 22m. If I date a 40 yaer old woman, she's a cougar. If my female peer dates a 40 year old man... he's a creeeeeeepy DOM. "

And older women despite their so called "maturity" are no less arrogant and immature.

"If I date a 22m, I'm a cougar. If my male peer dates a 22F, he's  a lecherous predator"

Its a bully system older women created whereby males are rewarded for liking females our senior and punished as "pervs" for liking someone younger than us.

The saddest part of it all is that older women are GOING to call young guys pervs when they become sugardaddies. Its going to happen. I'm almost   30 and I'm already seeing that happening to my peers with 18 or 19 year old lovers.

its sad. Older women havent made up their minds whether they want to be a friend of the male gender or the vilifier of it.

Older women want their cake and eat it too. They want age gaps to be glamorous for them and perverted for everyone else.  The worse part is they think no male can pickup on that  behavior and eye it with question.

Age gaps are not wrong. Young women and older men just have to stick up for themselves more instead constantly allowing themselves to be bashed. My girlfriend is 21 and even WE had problems with her family because of age. I'm only 29!!! But a 45F and a 21m is considered "wonderful". What a load.

Answer 2

its legal, so its NOT an issue...

Answer 3

seriously people are just narrow minded and ignorant. my b/f and i are 12 years apart. he's 33 and i'm 21, and we get along great, and have great chemistry and we really love each other. people are just ignorant, and think it's gross. i don't understand why it's gross either.  my only guess is because the law tells us that until you're 18 it's illegal and that you're having s*x with a child. so when you see two people with a large age gap, people just tend to assume that it's gross, and think..."oh wow 4 years ago it would have been illegal for them to date". people just need to grown up.

Answer 4

cause people are stupid, idk age is just a number

Answer 5

Life experiences.  Laws. You change so much in your twenties.  And continually evolve.  That doesn't mean age should matter.  It's how you treat someone, not how old you are.  I've been burned by people of all ages, but I can say that the one person I fell for hardest was half my age and while it seemed like it was perfect at first, the age thing got to her and she showed her lack of maturity by not being honest/ by lying/running away/etc.  Broke my heart in a way someone my age wouldn't have (I like to think).  But, you can have the same thing happen to you from someone of any age.  If it's what you both want and you both understand the situation, I say go for it.  And to the naysayers and people who give you that look, forget about them.  The people that are important in making it work are the two of you.  Good luck!!

Answer 6

Many people dont have issues with this.the soul is the same age at birth as it is at death,so if your soulmates,age means nothing.