Why is being a virgin weird to Society?

Question

Why is being a virgin weird to Society, but when you had s*x, it's normal to Society. why is this?

Answer 1

Maybe you and I live in two different societies, but most people I know don't care who is a virgin and who's not. I'm not trying to sound like a wise guy when I say that. What is normal? Why does anyone's sexuality make society more or less normal?

I think it's great that more and more young people are willing to wait until they are married. s*x is MUCH better when you are in a permanent loving, trusting relationship. I also think that if you choose to have s*x, it's your business. Sometimes I think we talk too much about it. It should be a personal thing. A really confident person doesn't have to brag about his/her sexual experience or lack of it.  

Answer 2

because of the 70s i think. Or which ever decade had people s*x-crazed.

thats a good question. Which kinda made me think of the question somone once asked which was "why is it that if a girl has s*x she's a w***e. But if a man has s*x he's a player" meaning... bad for a girl, good for a guy. XD

yeah..i think cause of that decade though, people switched from being virgin good s*x bad to virgin bad s*x good. Yeah....the world is crazy and messed up we'll just leave it at that. lol. jk or is it really a jk?! O.o XD

Answer 3

im a virgin and im 17...but i mean..i really dont care

Answer 4

cuz people r so closed minded

Answer 5

because s*x is a basic human need. So everybody expects you to have passion/desire for s*x.

being a virgin is not weird to the society. Some cultures, especially in south asia, traditional families expect their unmarried daughters to remain virgins. or having s*x out of the wedlock is not usually accepted.

In those cultures.

But I don't get why you put that que under g*y, bisexual category. is it a mistake or so u expect a different kinda answer?

Answer 6

if ur like in ur 30's/ my friends make fun of for being a virgin all the time

im 23 btw

Answer 7

Nothing like that but we just think that way.

Answer 8

Being a virgin isn't weird.  In some cultures it exists as a lifetime

reward in this world or next.  Culture differs.  Personally have no use

for a virgin except in speleological terms.  Having s*x need not put

virginity at risk.  Some s*x is better than others due to restraint.

For example's ask the Pope or see provided source*  

Answer 9

It is?

IMO, society is too s*x-obsessed. I think one's "s*x status" is private, and irrelevant to others.

Answer 10

Cause most people have s*x eventually.

I don't think being a virgin is weird, it was just boring for me.

Answer 11

It's weird to be a virgin when you're old.

Answer 12

s*x is everywhere. s*x is thrown around so much, that people forgot that s*x is supposed to beautiful. People think that s*x is something to do for fun, but it's for two people who love each other. I can't say I know the answer to your question. But I think it's because people make s*x out to be so casual, that they wonder "Why not just 'do it'?".

By the way, no one wants sloppy seconds. ;)

Answer 13

Because society only understands self indulgence and giving in to one's every whim.  Society doesn't understand standards nor the presence of God and His design and purpose for s*x.  So don't listen to society.  Society hasn't a clue.

Answer 14

It depends in which society, but I have to agree with South Jer... it's no ones business!