Why is being in love such a bad thing?

Question

Ok I'm a guy and I'm 14 and I find love such a beautiful thing no matter who its with or if they're green, purple, yellow, polka dotted, striped, tall, short,skinny, fat, L*****n, straight, g*y.. Anyone ...but then when you prefer a certain ethnicity or s*x, you get a whole bunch of criticism for it from people and your religion and your culture. Come on, just because your Indian doesn't mean you have to date or marry and Indian, just because you're a girl doesn't mean you have to date or marry a man, and vice versa... What do you think? I personally think beauty is in the eye of the beholder...Love is love.. Love is beautiful.. No one should who or what I should love.. Isn't it the same as liking a certain food or drink? Do people make fun of you for that? I don't think so.. Well really stupid people will critisize you for what you eat...

Answer 1

It's called IGNORANCE Ali,People are so judgmental. Look at these poor teenagers committing suicide because kids are so cruel. Adults are not far behind them. Love who you want to love!!! s***w the rest of the world. The only problem is,if you go public with a non accepted relationship get ready for the Hypocrite's. They judge everyone else and believe me they all have some sort of skeleton in their closet.The bottom line is you have to be stronger than them and don't let them win,don't let them get to you. What comes around,goes around sweetie!!!

Answer 2

Different people have different preferences Good luck.

Answer 3

i toatally agree with you anyone should be able to love anyone i might just be repeating you but i think you hit the nail on the head you seem like a very accepting person *claps*. oh and the thing about the food yeah im a toatally health nut (i used to be fat) so people tell me to pick up a burger string bean and some are mean about it but theyre usually dbags so i laugh it off  

Answer 4

Yes what your saying is so true i feel the exact same way..All my life ive always said love is love no matter what. I think every one should think the same way and not have so many stereo types and a way you have to live your life

Answer 5

Come on dude...just ask a question. If you want sympath then start a blog.

Answer 6

I think it is bad to say that you prefer Purple people, because it makes one seem close minded and bigoted. If you are open to all people not just Purple, but end up in love with primarily Purple people, then there is nothing wrong I think.

For me, I find that I am most attracted to people who are Asian, but that does not mean I am an exlusivly asian lover...

Does what I am saying make sense... I hope so....