Why is everyone avoiding me? ?

Question

ok, well, i have a friend problem. the thing is, i dont have many friends! And i just feel so out of touch with everything. for example, myspace. I dont have one and all of my friends are always on it and such. My mom is worried about me, so i try to talk to people but they never return my calls or anything! So what am i doing wrong? Why is everyone avoiding me?

Answer 1

What are your interests? Usually a person finds friends by doing something that interests them, and the others that are interested in the same thing will socialize with you. For example I was in drama and choir in school and played piano, so my friends were the musicians and singers in the school. I didn't get along with all of them or call all of them my friends, but I did make some friends out of the lot of them. If you don't have an interest or can't think of something, then start looking for something that you think could become a new interest. Especially one that involves a lot of social interaction between people. Some people are not very much into social things, but even a book club is comprised of people that sit around and read all the time. Except for when you go to a "reading" at the library or book store. Eventually you would see someone at the store you recognize and you can start up a conversation with them.

Answer 2

maybe your building a wall. and you dont even know it.

try being more open and fun.

good luck♥

Answer 3

I have the same problem :[

They just don't like us :[

answer? its about my problems...

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Answer 4

Its like that for me to, it feels like I'm always the one making the effort and it's very depressing.

Answer 5

start up a myspace page. then you can chat with the friends you have and maybe make more.

Answer 6

People tend to avoid others when they dont seem very open themselves. You should give others a reason to want to talk to you, or failing that, make an effort to enhance your personality.