Why is he acting like this?PLEASE HELP!:D?

Question

So hey im 13 and i have been friends with this boy for at least 5 years. We have always been the best of friends ( at least i thought)Well i was always the one who was the popular one, he was popular too like not anti-social but he was the gaming type boy. Well when i started gr.7 ( the grade i just ended im going into gr.8 this September) He became so popular i think even popular then be and started getting all these chicks.And i mean thats not the prob its the fact that he ignores me infront of girls and guys even. and at school will prob never talk to me unless alone where noone will see.

We hang out all the time outside of school and were so in sync and he talks away just like normal.

But he tends to hind our friendship and does not realize how special our friendship is. Im hoping that when we both get into highschool and get away from elementary school kids it will all change.I just dont know what to say or do so he can realize. ?

any help or advice/

thanks :)

Answer 1

Well hun,

it seems like he's ignoring you because he's insecure about your friendship.

bottom line= He's in love with you and does not want to show it!

What you need to do know is get some alone time with him before school starts, and get someone close to you

i.e - Sister, cousin .mom. dad

to talk to him. NOT YOU!

Because since you are at that age if you say stuff to him he will take it seriously and it will make the friendship awkward.

And you might feel weird about saying it to him.If you get someone else to have a conversation with him he will actually listen to the words that are coming out of their mouth., and he will change. Whomever is going to talk to him write out some things you want to be said.

It is the best way,

Right now because you are 13 no matter how many hints or talks he wont listen. Hes hot mature enough to have an honest  conversation with another 13 year old.

Dont forget to put this in:

'' If you try to hid the close friendship you have., eventually their will be no friendship.''

I hope i helped!

I've dealt with this exact problem with my daughter and i talked to the boy and it did work.He does listen to the mom and really thinks about it,

Try it before school so you don't get dis-courage at the start of the year if hes acting like a big shot around his friends!