Why is he always mad at me?

Question

well i done some spending money yesterday on myself. i was with a friend and she bought so many clothes. we were together all day. finally after 5 long hours i see this necklace. i bought it. I t only cost $15 dollars. so today i phoned my hubby at work on his break to tell him. he screamed at me. see we don't have much money always a problem because i don't work. he used to buy me nice things. but lately know matter what i do he yells what is wrong. oh yeah he told me to keep the dam necklace and i wont have anything for a long time does he love me and more stupid necklace that i hate now.help-please

Answer 1

grammar check...anyways, look at it from his point of few you don't work so basically he pays for everything. money don't grow on trees. and it's not like it was something you just had to have. learn how to budget!!

Answer 2

You are supposed to be working WITH your husband to make ends meet, not AGAINST him!  Did he spend money on HIMSELF?  Hey, if you can't afford it you can't, if you want stuff for yourself, get you butt  to work instead of spending the day shopping!  You ain't no princess!

Answer 3

This is vague, but I think that he is too stressed out. You need to do all you can to rescue your relationship before it's too late- even if it means permanently moving to the forest

Answer 4

You should probably just chill a little with the spending. Yes the necklace was only $15 dollars but you guys are only living off of his income and I can see where it might upset him cause he's working hard to make ends meet and you're spending his funds on jewelry. Try not to spend on your wants but yet your needs at least until you find a job and no longer have to live off your hubby. Good luck :)

Answer 5

It  seems that hes very tight on money I think you should get a job you don't have to work full time but so you can buy yourself things. But maybe your could be going through a few problems he might be in ded or something I think you should talk to him.  

Answer 6

The need to make money causes a lot of stress. Money is the the # 1 stress issue in most marriages. Times are tough right now. Most folks stress out about $$. You husband is dealing with his stress by venting out his frustration at you. Take it easy on the spending. If you are able to work, it may help things out if you got a part time job. I hope things workout.

Answer 7

Is the work thing temporary? Why aren't you working?

And are you guys really struggling for money? Is $15 a huge impact?

There was a time for me and my hubby that even $10 was a huge chunk of money and we literally had nothing.

If you can work, then I think you need to start- sounds like your hubby is frustrated cuz he's working all day and then you go out with a friend and then buy something. Even a job that is part time that brings in some money can really help, and maybe you can keep like $100 a month for yourself to do whatever with.

My mom didn't work for years and my father lost all his respect for her and treated her like dirt.

When he gets home apologize, return the necklace if it's not important, and if you can, tell him you are gonna start working to help out.

Answer 8

aww. Im sorry, I think he is stressed out about your financial situation and feels like you dont understand that he works his A** off for money. I know its just fifteen dollars, but thats enough money to were he could feel that way. Why dont you try to get a little part time job, or atleast offer it to your husband so you and him can get more finacially stable and so you can feel more "free" to buy the things you want! Plus guys dont understand us girls, and why we love to shop lol

Answer 9

I feel so sorry for u what u should do is

just sit down and talk to him.

and if he does not listen then

tell him u are leaving him. jk jk lmao

dont do that just talk to him i am

sure he will listen and u will make up

in no time. :]]

Answer 10

Your grammar says it all.

Answer 11

have you told him how you felt i think you should that's the best way to feel better talk to him about it... hope all turns out A ok ;)  

Answer 12

Money is always a problem in relationships. Your not working so he is paying for everything. Try getting a job every amount helps. Cut back on the spending and talk to your hubby to see what he thinks. There are ways to make things work. He's not mad , but upset about money.

Answer 13

Just wondering, why don't you work? Is there something wrong mentally? Please don't think that I am being mean, but your spelling and grammar is atrocious and even your wording of sentences is terrible. So I'm just wondering if maybe you have a learning disability that is preventing you from working. no offense, ok? It's hard when every penny counts, trust me, I live it, but once in a while you just HAVE to pamper yourself or you'll go crazy! Tell your hubby to give you a break.