Why is he avoiding me and not speaking to me?

Question

ever since i said 'lets be friends'

he's been acting like this.

why wont he just talk and tell me whats going on?

how can i make him.

its seems like every time i try to talk to him im pushing him away.

wats the solution?

Answer 1

He is probably in love with you and after hearing those infamous words "let's be friends", it hurt his feelings immensely.  His only actions to help him not get hurt any more is to avoid you.  I guess you really struck a nerve within him.

The solution: He is obviously hurt so do not "make" him or force him to do anything which involves you.  You are going to have to try hard to get back into his good graces.  Give him some time to himself without you near so he can decompress and resolve the issue to his own volition.  After all you did call it off.   He will start coming back in a more communicative way slowly but surely.  Be gentle, men can be sensitive too!

Answer 2

HE'S PROBABLY MAD CUZ HE STILL LIKES YOU... TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND IF HE STILL ACTS THAT WAY WELL TOO BAD FOR HIM!!!

HOPE I HELPED!!!

Answer 3

give him time, he probable is either angry or embarrassed.if hes either one of those he wont want to talk to you.

Answer 4

if this is about breaking up with a guy. The worst thing you can say to a guy is lets be friends...its an ego shot. I think the best thing is to let him be. Dont force it or you probably wont be friends. Be friendly if you see him and if he seems open ask him how he feels...but in the end time heals all wounds...give it some time...and then try again if he means that much to you.

Answer 5

Get a clue!!

Answer 6

Hey Patti G where is your sensitive side?

Answer 7

totally just ask him whats going on.