Why is he behaving this way ?

Question

my boyfriend and i of 6 yrs , were staying in his fathers house when we got evicted . We have been there for 6 months. i recenlty lost my job , and my bf got laid off , so for the time being we were doing really bad , this happened about 2 weeks ago. although it is not his father's responsibility . He would leave us in the house starving allll day , and would not buy food for us to eat , so my bf got mad at his father's behavior and said that he did not want me to suffer like this . I told him to please give me the opportunity to receive my unemployment and i could go rent a room somewhere , but no he wanted me to go to my mother's house. He called her starting telling her what we were going through and that he wanted me with her, I am from Nyc and she is from Toms river nj , he made her do a 3 hr drive to come and pick me up , saying that he was leaving as well and i will be fine in jersey. The thing is that i hate where my mom lives , i have lived all of my life in the city and she lives in a very suburban town , I feel depressed all i want to do is cry and sleep I HATE IT HERE. Now everytime i call him , He has an attitude with me , talks very mean to me , and is still at his fathers house , after he told me he was leaving the same day i was. If i ask him when he is leaving he gets mad and gets nasty. What is his problem. Why did he make me come all the way down here , U guys don't understand how I hate being in the house , I really depressed about it. Atleast if i was renting a room or something , I would be on my own and happy Over here i feel like i am five again.

And i hate the fact that now when i talk to my bf he gets all nasty with me , for no reason.

Answer 1

sounds to me like he tried to help you out so you guys wouldn't starve he thought maybe your mom could help maybe his wondering why you haven't asked him to stay with you and that were the attitude comes from and if your unemployment comes through go rent that room and get out of there i know what  you mean i had to live with my mother for about 3 months about 4 years ago h**l lol  

Answer 2

Maybe you're being naggy without realizing to the extent (trust me I Do it ALL the time) he probably just wants to be with you but can't. Just wait it out. You guys have been together for six years don't let this bleep on the road get you so worked up. Maybe he tried to leave but wasn't able to.

Answer 3

ok darling.. Breath first and relax... First of all, I guess your boyfriend is a little stressed because he is in a situation of financial difficulty. And I don't like the way he just called your mom and asked her to pick you up. I mean if he really loves you and is mature, rational enough. Then he would talk to you about what bothers him a lot right now. If you don't like living in the suburbs you can try to get another job. YES YOU CAN. and then move out of your mom's house. Don't worry, all you need is a bit of patient and you'll get out of that h**l pit.

By the way,, I dont know what you boyfriend is doing. But it might be a suspect that he wants you away. But don't think too much. Don't think and expect much from him. Find a way to solve your current situations. Whatever it be your boyfriend you can straightening out later. because your boyfriend needs time to calm down and reorganize himself.