Why is he blocking me out of his life?

Question

my ex and i had a daughter in march he left 2 weeks after to iraq. before he left we were amazing and workin on things and talking about moving in and having another one....we got in a fight a few weeks ago and he wont answer me or anything....he talks to other but not me who has his daughter....if theirs any marines out their who know why he might be doing this or girls who date services men please help me idk what to do!

Answer 1

Absolutely take this time for yourself, but don't move on too fast.  Give him time to come back.  Say you find someone else and you two decide you want to get back together.  Then you would have hurt someone else.  Give him a break, and if things are meant to be then they will be.  Don't be emotional and argumentative.  (This doesn't mean let him walk on you if you do start talking again.)   What I mean is don't be petty.  Only argue over things that matter to you the most and your relationship will be a smoother one.

Answer 2

he probably cant stand to see u cuz he did something bad

like kill

Answer 3

Maybe he is just going through a really hard time.  Please be patient until you know the truth.  I know it is so hard but please please try. There can be all sorts of reasons.

Answer 4

Work on your own life, get a better career, take care of your daughter and don't date anyone. When he comes back from Iraq see if you can work on the relationship for the sake of your daughter. Don't involve any other man because you are lonely. Be patient and use this time to spend time with friends you have ignored because of him.