Why is he doing this?

Question

well he is my really boyfriend weve been together for 1 year and weve been off and on because of this and i think he really is serios with this girl and i dont know what to do about there know one elsa like him

Answer 1

Hello fren... U know he is unfaithful to u. He is on and off with u and at the same time hang around with the other girl.

U know love is blind. The blindness is making u go crazy after him. Open your eyes and open your mind.

Do you think it is worth to continue the relationship?

Ignore him and carry on with your life. Do the best for your life. U will find your soulmate when the right time come for u.

Be happy don't worry.

Answer 2

He may appear to be "confused" about you and the other girl, but has it ever occurred to you that he may be very selfish?  

Short reason why he does this:  One girl seems to satisfy one set of a guy's needs while the other satisfies the other set of needs.  You fill in the blanks for what roles you and the other woman play.

Please ask yourself:  are YOU satisfied with what he gives you:  including the limited amounts of time, the distraction and the nagging thoughts of comparison to the other woman?  

If you aren't satisfied and if you believe yourself to be a good person who deserves a man who will give himself over to you wholly and completely,  find someone who isn't like him at all.  He was never your type anyway.

Answer 3

How old are you?  You must be pretty young and inexperienced.  There is always someone better out there.  Just be patient.  Leave the cheater and find someone that will care about you.  I have been married twice before and did not give up and now I have been married for 15 years and been very happy.  It will work, you just have to get rid of the bad luggage before it can.