Why is he not talking to me?

Question

my ex and i had a daughter in march he left 2 weeks after to iraq. before he left we were amazing and working on things and talking about moving in and having another one....we got in a fight a few weeks ago and he wont answer me or anything....he talks to other but not me who has his daughter....if theirs any marines out their who know why he might be doing this or girls who date services men please help me i dont know what to do what to do!

im not dating anyone i can't i went on one date and i had to leave early i dont want to date...especially raising my daughter alone right now i want ever second with her.

Answer 1

if u guys were all good and then had an argument out of no where and he said to go on a date... That's NOT a good sign. not trying to burst a bubble or anything here, but it looks as tho he's steppin out and lookin.

Answer 2

Does he know you went on this date?

This could be his problem.

If he does know, it would be like you abandon him as soon as the door was shut.

Just because he told you to doesn't mean you should have. Perhaps he was just doing this to test you. Or perhaps at the time of telling you he thought he would be mature enough to handle it, then realized he wasn't. I don't know why any man would tell his woman to date while he was gone. That doesn't make any sense to me.

Perhaps he told you to do this because he thought he would be doing it too, but then he hasn't yet had the opportunity to act on it himself, thus you will be accused of cheating first.

Answer 3

Hi my name is Ginette and I am here to tell you to put god before any man.  I don't know if you have any beliefs but If someone loves you they will not hold on to an argument.  If you truly love him and want to be with him let him go if it is ment to be he will come to you.  Don't call him anymore the more you call him the longer he will reject you.  Personally, I think you should date just be careful who you date and what you do.  You don't have to bring your dates around your daughter.  god bless.