Why is he playing games?

Question

I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years on last wednesday. Well, I have 2 c him at church every sunday and I hate that!!!! I don't want 2 c him, be around, talk 2 him...at all!!! He sat right infront of me at church and he was looking all happy and talking 2 people that he doesn't normally talk to. I never spoke a word 2 him and he never said a word 2 me either. I had a meeting 2 go 2 and he stood around until after my meeting and once he knew that I was about 2 walk out of the room, he started laughing and talking to someone. Once I walked past him without saying anything, he finally left. Why was he acting like that?

Answer 1

Because maybe he still likes you and wants you to talk to him ...

Answer 2

i don't know

Answer 3

He wants to show you there is life beyind you, a happier one for him, or maybe he's acting.

In any case, find another religious institution to attend where they are more freidnly, like a Unitarian Universalist, who preach loving all from all religions and all of us.

Answer 4

He's trying to make you think hes better off without you.   Thats he happy without you Doesn't appear to be the case though, does it?

Answer 5

Well, he prolly wants to make you jealous or something, or he still loves you... dang y not just be direct

Answer 6

if you don't want to see him or be around him, why are you paying attention to every little thing he does?

Answer 7

He is hurting. You dumped him and he wants to get even. Childish ? Yes.  In time he will let it go. Best bet is to go to church just before sermon or talk to a few friends and surround yourself, like a buffer zone. If he really cared about you, you should be able to talk to him about this. Hope this helps.

Answer 8

Mabye he wasnt ready for you two to break up. He probably still likes you.....or hes doing it to be a jerk

Answer 9

he was trying to get your attention

Answer 10

He isn't happy about the breakup and he's trying to make you see that he can get on with his life. I do this a lot to people, and it only makes me feel worse. The second you left, his world fell apart all over again and he stopped laughing.