Why is he playing games with me?

Question

My ex-boyfriend and I broke up a little over a month ago, and he was really upset at first, but he bounced back really quickly and he's been dating another girl for about a week or so.

But I can tell---and so can his brother---that he is trying to make me jealous. He is always talking about how hot and cool his new girlfriend is and how s**y she is because she has a "MySpace picture of her and her best friend together in the shower".

But he will not let me let him go. As much as I really want to, he will not let me.

See, I thought breaking up with him was a mistake a couple days after we broke up, and we might have gotten back together, but he went and hooked up with another girl and that went down the drain. I was extremely sad when I found out and it took me a while to recover from that heartbreak and let him go.

But now that I am still trying to patch up the wounds, he can see that I'm vulnerable. He's trying to lead me on, but yet he keeps saying how ugly and obnoxious I've become, and then he goes on comparing me to his new girlfriend to my face.

I want to forget him altogether, but he's making it so hard and it's making me really upset.

Why is he playing games with me, and what should I do about it?

Answer 1

If your trying to be the bigger person then don't listen to what I say.

If I was you, I will play the same game he's playing. When your ex boyfriends around, act like you don't notice him. don't act like you still want him because that will make him feel sooo good. Lie and say your dating too. Make him feel worthless. After that, if he tries to come back to you, ignore his a*SS!.

for all the S**t he put you through while you were trying to heal from the breakup. Payback's a Betch!

good luck!

   November Rain

Answer 2

he is not playing games he dosent know what he really wants forget him or try and take him back but i sugest forget him their are many gys that would love to go out with you im sure

Answer 3

what u mean hes not lettin u let him go.no boy can do that.yea hes trying 2 make u jealous but u need 2 try and let go of him.and dnt pay him no mind when he try 2 compare u 2 his gurl.if he see ur getting over him and him always talking bout his gurlfriend to u doesnt bother u mayb h**l stop

Answer 4

ignore him do the same ! but hes only doing it cuz he wants you to know that he doesnt need you that he can get another girl when he wants hes just using the girl too so just ignore it and act like you dont care that way he'll just get tired of rubbing his new girl in . i bet his new girl is a s**t ! lol

Answer 5

better do the same with him " saying that i have a new boy friend too "

he looks smart and blah blah blah ......its better you start playing with him mam!! ( i should listen a good news from you as early as possible)

all the best for your future

your friend@  

Answer 6

He is playing games with you to get back at you for breaking up with him... Don't give him the time of day. Find a guy that is worthwhile... good luck! :)

Answer 7

That is really messed up what he is doing to you, but the truth is that he probably wants you back and is trying to make you jealous in anyway that he can.  Don't let him get to you, and maybe find a new guy to go out with, try to stop talking to him if possible.

Answer 8

well my friend has a girl friend and he asked her to homecoming and she said she was busy and then the day after homecoming the guy saw her on homecoming pics on her myspace and the guh got piseed asked the girl and the girl wanted to be asked in person