Why is he so flattered to be my first?

Question

My bf and I had s*x (I'm 19), and he was my first (I was his 6th...he's 23).

I had told him, and he not only seemed not to have a problem with it, he was flattered....he asked me if I was lying (I obviously wasn't) and he's brought it up a few times in a joking way (like, "oh, I hope you used a condom" when I told him about a camping trip I took with a male friend once).

I haven't really mentioned it otherwise after we started having s*x, but he has. Oh, and I'm not hung up or clinging about it.

Why does he care so much?

Answer 1

mostly because girls can't hold on to it for long these days.

Answer 2

Because it's very rare to be 19 and still a virgin.