Why is he still in my dreams??

Question

I keep dreaming about this guy. I used to like him during the school year, but then summer came and I thought i was over him. then one day i randomly saw him again and after that, i started dreaming about him.

The dreams always have a different setting, and we never really talk in them. we actually sort of avoid each other. but there is tension between us and we'll look at each other and look away, or pretend we don't see each other (in the dreams).

I think that I am over him...so why is he still in my dreams?? its kinda annoying me.

Answer 1

well i have the same problem. you really think your over him but trust me your not.  

Answer 2

Did you ever talk to him? Did he like you back...if he didn't that's probably why you keep dreaming bout him cuz you didn't get to have him...and that's why you gave up on him and that's why you think you're over him but really you wish you still had a chance with him...??

Answer 3

Obviously youre not over him yet!!!

Answer 4

Your mind is still processing stuff about him while you sleep....and like she said...you aren't over him. :)

Answer 5

Even thought you may not feel the same way about this guy that you used to, you still wonder about him every once in awhile.  Subconsciously, you still have somewhat of an interest in him.  The reason why you don't talk to each other and avoid each other in your dreams is because you have not made an effort to see him or contact him in anyway (he hasn't either). The tension confirms that you still have a little interest in him and that you think he may still have a little interest in you (did he show any that time you saw him??)

Well, it's nothing to worry about.  If you still want to pursue him, maybe you should.  If not, then you will continue to get over him, and soon these dreams will stop.

Answer 6

I think that you're having these dreams because you saw him again randomly. My psychology professor once said during lecture that dreams in themselves are a bit of a mystery, but they can be interpreted; he spoke about a case similar to this, saying that when the dreamer saw the person the same day he/she had a dream about them, the dreamer was simply "plugging" in their face in the dream. So I think you're okay.

Answer 7

I think that it means your minds over him but your heart and subconscious aren't. I know I use to have that problem. It will annoy you but just say before you go to bed I am over him he hates me I hate him and hopefully yuo will get over it and the dreams will go away

Answer 8

Uh, you're not over him. But, since there is nothing to actually be "over." Then all it really means is you are infatuated with him.