Why is he still with me?

Question

I've been dating this guy for 2 months, and he says he likes me a lot. We hang out with each other almost all the time.

I've got upset at him a couple of times because I was angry and my a scene twice since we've been together in front of his friends and everything. There have been people who don't like me, that have "warned" him about me, that I'm an angry person, "be careful". But me getting angry with him has never been for any reason. And I just basically have a short fuse. And he obviously realizes that.

He has once told me that because I have a short fuse, that it has caused him to not continue his feeling for me further, .....if that makes any sense..

But I asked him about why after he has seen my bad side, why is he still wanting to be with me. And he said its because he likes me. And for me that's not a good enough answer for me, because I think I suspect that their could be more.

He then said, "how would I feel if I were in his situation, and if I would stick around and why". And I said its because I would have to love that person enough to work things out. And he said, "exactly".

Answer 1

I don't see what you're confused about, he answered your question.

Answer 2

Maybe he figures you need a good friend in your life

Answer 3

I think you're over analyzing him a little. He likes you, that's all there is to it.  

Answer 4

well you pretty much answered your question in the last paragraph of your letter.when you like someone so much or love them,you are willing to accept them for who they are and not pay attention to what other people are saying.besides he must love your company thats why he likes to be around you.quit worrying coz really this is not hard to figure out.be confident in yourself that besides having a bad temper,someone likes you for who you are.on another note,try to work with your temper/anger coz its not emotionally healthy.if its not worth having a high blood pressure from,then just take a deep breath,think of happy thoughts or your guy and chill.

Answer 5

he does like you but he is conflicting at the same time, sounds like, not trying to insult, but you need some self reflection because this will happen with every guy unless you meet a guy with a short fuse and than fists will fly.

Answer 6

do you have $ or great s*x? those could be the answer. are you bi polar?

Answer 7

Great! You answered your own question. But, some people love to live dangerously.

Answer 8

dont know...

Answer 9

so are you having all these fits to test men? Do you have your own abandonment issues?

If you start feeling better about yourself...and believe that you are worth it, you'll feel more secure and you won't be such a *********.

Answer 10

Maybe its because you put out.   Guys will do anything for easy s*x and blowjobs.

Answer 11

He basically said he loves you.  True love knows no boundaries.  He wants to work it out.