Why is it SO hard to just FORGET?!?

Question

I don't think I can honestly do it anymore..I broke up with this guy..Almost 7 months ago, and i'm NOT over him. I don't think im ready to be over him. I love him beyond comprehension. Thing is, i'm SICK of not being over him, and I just want to FORGET! What do I do?!?!?!!?

Answer 1

The real reason is why did you guys break up and is there still a chance for you too

And if you can't work it out

go out with ur friends and do lots of things get your mind off of it

Good luck : )

Answer 2

I've said this same thing too many times over the same guy. If this is the first guy you've ever been in love with, that could have some impact. I don't think anyone ever truly gets over the first person they fell in love with, unfortunately.

As for forgetting, you could try hypnotherapy.

Answer 3

omg i know how you feel i cant get over this guy eather it sucks but what im trying to do is just start flirting with other guys and going places it just helps get your mind off him

Answer 4

well, since you can't just forget about it, you have to ACCEPT it. :)

Answer 5

You just need to get out with your friends a lot and try and find someone better to think about that's worth your time.  

Answer 6

go out more and don't let yourself think about him. be conscious of your thoughts and when you start thinking of him stop. eventually it will get easier...trust me... I have been in the same situation..