Why does it seem that trans-racial, international adoptees are often encouraged to seek out their roots, heritage, and even their birth family? I have even seen news stories about this being such a great thing.
Yet when us white, American born adoptees express interest in our birth families, we are told "get over it, be glad you weren't aborted, be grateful someone took you in and gave you a place to live". There is a huge, negative social stigma against it.
Why is it acceptable for one set of adoptees to search, but not another?
Is the loss greater for one set but not the other?
Thoughts as to why this cultural opinion exists?
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