Why is it bad for a 18 year old to go out with a 16 its only two years.?

Question

My mum and dad are 4 yrs diffrences in age and mybe some girls like a guy who acts older and is more grown up then 16 yr old girls acting like freaks.

And alot of Mums and dads and people who date have 2 to 3 years bewteen each other.

so why did i get called its underage well its not she is 16 not 13 and i so wouldnt date a girl under 16 that pedo and when i turn 19 i would nt date ppl 17 n under

Answer 1

there is nothing wrong with it and It is not illegal and girls mature faster than guys so maybe that is why she wants someone older.

Answer 2

Its fine.

My boyfriend is 23 and I'm almost 17. We are waiting to have s*x until marriage and we're engaged =)

Answer 3

Strictly speaking about an 18 year old dating a 16 year old, it is only wrong because it is illegal in the U.S. Only in the U.S., is 18 the legal age, the age you are considered an adult.

In other parts of the world, age is viewed much more differently, and 18 is not the legal age. People can talk about an 18 year old being much more mature than a 16 year old, but look at all the other countries of the world. Most people do not know the responsibilities that young people in other countries have when they are just 16..15...13.

ie. Tibet: Many children are married by the time they are 13, and ready to give birth and raise children.

Answer 4

It isnt the actual age people are looking at, it is the mind. Mentally, an 18 year old is lightyears more mentally able than a 16 year old. I know it sounds crazy because it's only 2 years difference but it's true! How the courts and Psychologist see it is that a 16 year old does not have the mental capability to see the consequences of their actions, they have low impulse control and can't truly see what they are doing. You truly dont reach your adult mind until between 24 and 27.

Answer 5

the bad reason is the girl u r gfoin out with is a miner and your an adult thats problaly why its weird the only reason why its not weird between ur parents because they are both adults and they both luv each other

Answer 6

It is simply societal standards on legal age limits. That is it. Two years is nothing between you especially at those ages. Yes, it is wise to not date young teens at your age because your maturity levels do not match up, but 16 and 18 is not bad at all. Think of it this way, when you are 20 it won't even matter. I started dating my husband when I was 20 and he was 26 and it was no big deal because we were both mature adults. Don't fret it!

Answer 7

hey its me roxxie again theres nothing wrong with age as i said before i had s*x with a 57 year old no problem

Answer 8

I don't understand it either.

My freshman year, my friend was dating a senior. They're still together and he's now going to community college.

Answer 9

:] heyy becuz if a 18 year old has s*x with a 16 year old they considred it rape so stay away

Answer 10

just wait 2 more years, going out with an 18 year old is illegal.

=)

Then it will be fine.

Answer 11

idk

i keep asking that same question

y???

Answer 12

Yes as long as you dont " do it" thats condisdered rape.  Be careful becasue the younger one can sue for kissing or doing it and they can go to jail.

Answer 13

becasue its illegal. when they are both at least 18 or older. it doesnt matter. but when one is still in highschool and the other is in college. its first of all, illegal, and second, wierd.

hey my parents are about 3 years apart. and my moms parents are 12 years apart. but just wait until you get out of AT LEAST high school.

Answer 14

Thats not bad at all....i compleatly get where u are coming from!

Have fun with her!

Kara<3