Why is it bad to be an asskisser?

Question

If u say good things to others with the intention of getting something, but u never mean them harm, never would hurt them why is it bad?

If u treat others well because u yourself want to be treated well, why is it wrong?

Beeing civilized and succesfull and loved = kissing *** !!!

Why is this wrong, really?

Answer 1

because the only reason you're saying it is to get ahead!  you can treat people well without being an asskisser!

Answer 2

its not really genuine if its said with the intention of getting something in return.

plus, nobody likes an asskisser.

Answer 3

what are your thoughts on the woman who walks down the street with fake b***s a facelift and everything else on her body fake ... and all the men are worshipping her...

people dont like things that arent genuine...

its not a matter of wrong its a matter of being fake  and people dont like that

Answer 4

because it makes people hate you

Answer 5

Cause it's pathetic and fake sometimes.

Yours is probably not but it might look like that to other people.

Answer 6

The act of AK is when someone attempts to curry favor with a boss or higher-up with the intent to receive something in return, e.g. raise, better office, or less work.  It is less than respectable to act this way.  That is why most people resent it.

Answer 7

It's not wrong - it's just unpopular with some people.

Answer 8

The blowback.

Answer 9

Every *** kisser I have known were two-faced, phony, selfish and not to be trusted. Enough said.

Answer 10

People will not respect or trust you after they observe you kissing **.

Answer 11

It means acting like a weed out of fear, mainly

Answer 12

I sometimes think that asskissers can't help themselves. I believe they are just wired that way. You seem to be rationalizing what constitutes an asskisser. My place of employment rewards the asskissers, but I don't want to be seen in that light. We all will have a legacy when the final day comes, mine will say I wasn't an asskisser.

Answer 13

Your idea of treating others well and kissing *** are not spot on.  Theres a difference between *** kissing/brown nosing/sucking up and treating others well.  *** kissing is usually related to manipulation with intention of personal gain.  It is degrading to the kissee because to resort to these methods makes one seem less capable.  Treating other people well is being polite, respectful, some compliments, etc.  If what your saying above is all your thoughts and your situation then I don't think your *** kissing.  Your problems are probably in what kind of good things you say.  If you are excessively flattering others it might seem to others that you are *** kissing, but in reality you might just be really flirtatious.

Hope that helps.