Why is it called "Cheating"?

Question

Shouldn't a man have the right to hold a mistress when his wife is either unwilling or unable to fulfill her wifely duties?

Answer 1

h**l NO! You both made a commitment and should both be willing to take care of one another. If your need is just another woman, comprimise, THREESUM dont push her aside include her! It worked for my marriage!

Answer 2

No he shouldn't and frankly any guy like that is an ***. What if you're not able to fulfill your duties of being a husband that means we should just go out and cheat on you....wtf. Grow up! Get a ******* divorce if it's that bad.  

Answer 3

no

Answer 4

Definitely not.  He's breaking his vows - they say for better or for worse.  It does not say, if they're not doing their job, I don't do mine.  Don't get married if you're gonna cheat.

Answer 5

cause  you dont want the other  one  to  know!!..   anything  about it!!

Answer 6

Only if he has a mutual agreement with his wife who has agreed to be in an open relationship. If not then it's time to seek a divorce.

Answer 7

yes.s***n is a bodily fluid.if you m********e you are called a pervert.if you have s*x you are called just as bad of names.why don't women get that kind of abuse for menstruating if men are supposed to be so evil for having bodily fluids?

Answer 8

no, he should get a divorce first, maybe the wife is cheating on him if she is unwilling!

Answer 9

Sadly, your joke questions aren't funny. There are plenty of funny trolls on here who lighten the mood and are good for a laugh. You aren't one of them. Get a new hobby.  

Answer 10

Yes.

I've been married for 21 years and I haven't touched my wife for 15 years and for 13 of those I've had girlfriends on the side. My current girlfriend lives in my Condo I have on the side.

I love my wife, but there isn't isn't any sexual attraction between us any more.

Answer 11

You've made a lifelong promise to be faithful to your spouse -- there is no 'right' to having a mistress in this scenario!  

You need to tell her how you are feeling right now because she may not realise how unhappy you are with the marriage.  If you have some courage (ie, balls), then sit down and have a long discussion with her about what's not working for you in the relationship.  

Maybe you (yes, you) have put on weight or you're working very long hours or you simply have stopped paying attention to your wife (complimenting her appearance, her cooking, etc.)  From her point of view, maybe everything that was wonderful about her relationship with you has faded away over time, and she no longer feels the desire to make love to you.  

Have any of these possibilities occurred to you?  

Marriage is a two-way street and both partners are responsible for continuing to make the effort to keep the relationship healthy.

If your wife has a health issue or feels unattractive, it's up to both of you to try to talk this through and try to find a solution to the problem. Only after you've both tried to fix things should you be even contemplating seeing another woman -- and then you need to be honest about that with her too!!

Answer 12

It all depends what you are.  You can be ONE of TWO things

First thing you can be a MAN.  A man lets the woman know straight up, hey I only want you for s*x, or hey I only want you for a wife to take care of me, but I dont want sexual relations with you, or hey I love you as a woman, but i want to have other women.  If you and your wife agree on that upfront from the start, then it is totally hands down 100% fine.  2 consenting adults on a monogomous relationship is hands down alright, whatever makes you 2 happy

second think you can be.  A BOY.  If you are a boy, you'll use deceit, like the "pitty card" to keep your wife from dumping/divorcing you.  You'll cheat on her behind her back because you're too much of a coward to even say something to a girl.  (how macho is that if you can't even talk to a girl)

So ultimately its up to you what you want to be; a MAN or a BOY.  Either way is fine by me since we all like different choices.  Although if you are a BOY i hope one day you grow a pair and mature and blossom like the rest

Answer 13

Yes i think a man should be able to cause if his wife wont have s*x with him anymore why should he have to miss out on never having s*x again cause of his wife.

Edit...Hey stedway good for you i like your style.

Answer 14

define wifely duties. do you fulfill husbandly duties. does she define those? there is more to a marriage than s*x. if you need s*x from someone outside your marriage then you should just leave your wife before you do something to hurt her.  

Answer 15

dude is something wrong with u?