Why is it easier for irresponsible women to get pregnant, and harder for the responsible ones whos ready?

Question

Why is it easier for irresponsible women to get pregnant, and harder for the responsible ones who's ready? I sometimes look around and see young women that is way younger with 3thousand kids, yelling and screaming at them in public...obviously they have no idea how to be a parent, but you have plenty of women out here that can handle being a parent at the time, job is in line, finances in line..etc..I don't know if that's how the ball roles or what??? There's women out here that been trying for 10 yrs....but here the 17 yr old girl next door that's on here 3rd child and leaves them with mom to go to the club.....WHATEVER...ladies or gentlemen give me your input on this...

O' I'm 23 yrs old Human resource manager and my fiance' is 31 yr and is a mechanic.. I think we are doing quit fine to be young bucks....I don't mine trying full force after we get married, but I don't want to be stuck in the loop of hard pregnancies????

Answer 1

It might seem like that but just as many irresponsible ones have trouble getting pregnant as responsible ones.

Answer 2

when I was ttc I often thought about this and I think I know why ...

When you are ttc you put yourself under alot of pressure and you are having s*x and thinking "This better be it...I hope I get pregnant this time ... whats wrong with me why cant I get pregnant"

While an irresponsible woman/teen is only thinking about pleasure or enjoying the experience and they are relaxed when they o****m (if they even o****m)

Try to relax when you have s*x ... this was what I did to finally get pregnant!!

I went out bought s**y clothes ... bought my husband magazines to get him in the mood and when we had s*x I would focus on the pleasure his and mine and put the whole "trying to get pregnant this time" out of my mind ... It really works!!!

Good luck ~ and have fun with your partner!

Answer 3

I read the answers, and they are right about being relax and enjoy s*x.  The other part is to know your cycle of ovulation.  One has a ten to 14 day fertile period.  Just a comment, it may not be your fault, a male should a rest period to build the sperm count. If too low, percentages are against pregnancies.  Best natural birth control is s*x every night.  Keeps the sperm count low

Answer 4

I think it is because they are not trying to get pregnant that they do. Women who are trying to get pregnant can get overly stressed which in turn makes it harder for them to become pregnant.

When you are younger you are also more fertile, which makes it easier to become pregnant if you have intercourse.

Usually when the women who are trying to have children give up trying, that's when they end up pregnant.