Why is it hurting when i have s*x?

Question

I have been active for some time now but recently when i have s*x wit my boyfriend i either dont get wet or i do but then while we start havein s*x it starts to hurt. My lips custantly seem to go inside of me when he does because their dried out. Is it just because Im not wet it hurts? But even if I do get wet it starts to hurt after awhile. Should I buy a lubercant? I mean he turns me on it just sometimes I dont get wet and we will put water down there n try to play wit me for while. Should i not do this? Im just so confused on why it hurts... I know when we first started dating and had s*x it hurt because he's way bigger then any other guy i've been wit. lol. But you would think by now I would be used to his size. PLease help me out on all my questions and suggestions. Thank you!

Answer 1

defiantly try using lub. but maybe before you have s*x have him finger you and try to get your self horny. it doesn't mean you don't like him it just means your body isn't recognizing that your getting ready for intercourse. so maybe before you have s*x go into the bathroom and play with your nipples and tell him you want him to play with your C**t etc  

Answer 2

Try lots and lots of lubricant and foreplay focused on you. If that doesn't work, visit your gynecologist. Sometime else might be wrong.

Answer 3

try anal

Answer 4

If you use condoms, part of the problem could be that you've developed a sensitivity to latex.  If that's the case, I'd recommend trying polyurethane condoms instead, such as Trojan Supra.  And I would definitely make lube a routine part of your playtime.  There are so many choices of lube, but I would recommend that you try a top quality glycerin-free water-based lube.  If you find those dry out too quickly, you can use a silicone based lube.  Both are condom-friendly.  But you will need to remember that silicone-based lubes are not to be used with silicone toys as the combination causes a chemical reaction that ruins the toys.  Consulting with your doctor is a good idea in case any reason for your dryness is health related.

Answer 5

Just a shot in the dark here but are you using some form of birth control or other medication you weren't using before? It may not be you, lots of medication can have sexual side effects and you don't always get a warning. My wife was on some stuff that really messed her up and even though your case seems a lot milder I would hate to see anyone go through what she went through.Chek it out and be careful what medications you take because everybody reacts differntly to meds.... Good luck!

ps. Check forums and stuff to find out about the side effects of your medications (don't trust the official websites of the manufactuers or even what doctors tell you, trust me on this one)

Answer 6

u cud use a condom it wud help r u cud buy som KY Jelly r your v****a may be to tight and your cherry has not popped yet  

Answer 7

use a condom. that way the condom will take care of your dry v****a lol.  

Answer 8

keep your mind in s*x while you are making s*x, intercourse. it will help you.

another way, you can use lubricants but you will not feel better.