Why is it ok for girls to...?

Question

why is it ok for girls to say i love you and your hot and that is so s**y your so adorable and stuff but anytime a guy says anything even close to that everyones like awwwww g*y

Answer 1

you forgot to add "why is it okay for girls to hold hands in public?" whereas when men do that everyones like ...g*y!

i d k, i guess its because we more feminine and sensitive.  ; ]]

Answer 2

Thats because it's g*y.

You are confused, arent you.

Answer 3

cause girls are more open minded to stuff like that.. if you mean if i guy says that to another guy. and plus if a girl says that, a guy will most likely think its hot

Answer 4

because in general when someone says that it uis usually refered to girls.

Answer 5

Double standards.

Men are generally expected to be rough and manly. A lot of people still believe that "real" men aren't supposed to cry, and all that c**p.

Also, straight men seem to be more afraid of homosexuality than straight women. In general, if a straight man comes across a g*y man it's like the straight guy has to prove he's a "man" by harrassing the g*y guy. I haven't really seen that with straight women.

Answer 6

double standards. america is retarded when it comes to social gender aspects.

Answer 7

Because us females are more emotionally with our female friends, and to tell each other that we love and care about each other (in a non-sexual way) is as easy and normal as a fish swimming.

Guys show their friendship in other ways.

Answer 8

Sometimes ppl dont know how to take compliments especially in the US.  I always make funn of guys when they compliment me because its my defense mechanism of not knowing what to say.

Answer 9

It is a double standard, you're right.  

Answer 10

That is not always true

Answer 11

I've never heard of this happening...

Answer 12

Because people are always ready to jump on one another in a negative way.

Answer 13

probably cuz it's not manly. I feel your pain

Answer 14

thats just the way it is