Why is it okay for him to do this?

Question

Whenever I go out with this guy, he is all over me. One time we were at a park by my place, there were children around, and he was making out with me and had his hand up my shirt. When I was at his place, we had to make a stop at the grocery store near his place, while we were there, i playfully bit his chest, and there wasn't anyone in plain sight. he laughed and told me "not in public, baby." why does he do things to me in public that are inappropriate, but when i do it, he says "not in pulic."?

Answer 1

It's NOT ok for him to do that, and he sounds like a creep.

1) There should not be any double standards in a relationship.

2) If you don't want him to do something, he should respect your wishes - in public OR in private.

Have a frank discussion with him and lay down the law. If he won't comply, find another guy - one who respects you.

Answer 2

Wrong forum.

We discuss health issues here.

Get some counseling if you are so bothered.

Answer 3

he seems to be a control freak.. a guy who can do anything he wants but gives the girl limits... if you don't agree with his actions, just tell him to stop acting like that in public..if he doesn't stop, leave him.. its not worth it if he cannot compromise with you on something this simple.

Answer 4

he probably just isn't horny when you do it to him.  

Answer 5

Maybe he looked over and saw his grandmother down the aisle.

But seriously, please don't make out in public. Especially in parks. Wait til you get home. I know it's not illegal or anything but no one else really appreciates the scene as much as you do. Wouldn't it better to find a more romantic setting anyways? I mean do you really like having 5 year old kids stare at you? That would kind of turn me off.  

Answer 6

I think he is a creep. In a park with children? Come on now. Maybe he only likes it when people are around, you said nobody was aound at the grocery store, so maybe that is a turn-off for him.  

Answer 7

teasing you

Answer 8

lol...he was only playing with u...try it again and when he said stop do stop it do it again...

Answer 9

Well it sounds like he was joking around.

But personally I dont think it is appropret for you two to be making out in public with CHILDREN around... + he had his hand up ur shirt .... that is NOT right to do in front of kids... no offense do what you want in your houses and in private but no one wants there lil kids seeing that !  

Answer 10

Tell him the same thing the next time. The reason for this he was not real horny at the moment

Answer 11

Because he's immature and selfish. He has no regard for others unless it affects his biased views.

Answer 12

he was probably jokin

Answer 13

he seems like he wants to be notice or something in public places. try talking to him more you ll soon find out take it easy go slow and be stay smart remember if you do it take birth control good luck to you and have a nice day

Answer 14

I THINK HE WAS JUST PLAYING WIT YOU. BUT IF YOU DONT LIKE HIM DOING TO MUCH IN PUBLIC YOU SHOULD LET HIM KNOW.

Answer 15

I don't think it's ok for him to do it. Just tell him to stop. That your private life should be private. If he doesn't respect your wishes, he doesn't respect you and you should leave him. Act more like a lady.  

Answer 16

Because making out is something you see, not biteing.