Why is it so hard to find a good man?

Question

i know i'm slightly particular, because i would prefer to marry a white guy (i'm black), but it shouldn't be this hard to find someone cute and s**y and has a good job. and is white. lol

Answer 1

There are plenty of good men, all looking for the right girl to spend their lives with. But the media portrays popular young womanhood today as being easy, sluttish and arrogant.

Many good men are turned off by such things so they keep to themselves, frustrated and silent.

Don't give up - you will find the right man and he will find you, then you will discover so much joy together!

Don't go looking in bars and such though, because the people in bars are often in emotional pain and are looking for a quick fix to their troubles.

Answer 2

I'm sure they are there...but the things that are the best in life are sometimes the hardest to find. Keep looking...you will find someone ;)

Answer 3

I guess there are fewer men buying the cow, when there's been so much free milk for so long.

We're suffering the casualty from the 'sexual revolution'.

Answer 4

It is more a matter of perception.A good man to you may not be the same to another.Also if you are looking for a good man, the man is also looking for a good girl.This goes on till you feel that you have found one and he also feel he has found the same.Best wishes

Answer 5

They are all taken. I'm the last one and I was taken over 24 years ago, so if you find someone just remember that they're all seconds.

Answer 6

all the good guys will be taken if you are 27. the good girls and guys get snapped up early

Answer 7

How come you don't like Hispanic guys?  I always dream of dating a black woman in my life time.

Answer 8

because men these days are stupid and is only thinking bout getting u pregnant and s*x thats why

Answer 9

Well u should just try different types or u could try go out sometimes to clubs or parties and u might actually find your perfect match but I'm sure it will be hard to find a guy that has a job makes money and likes to spend quality time with his girl but don't worry cause their are other women having the same situation.

Answer 10

Well I got lucky and found one. I found him when I wasn't looking. We were friends, had a lot in common and I wasn't desperate. Don't act desperate. Men can smell it a mile away. Find things that interest you and do them. When you're happy and doing what you want, you're more likely to meet a man you share common interests with. Good luck and don't give up. They are out there, just be picky.