Why is it so hard to let go

Question

i realized that there are people i have to let go but in never thought it would be so hard i found out who my real friends are knowing all this i dont think i ready to just yet somebody tell y its so hard to let go plz

Answer 1

You simply need to make up your mind to do what is in your best interest. Do the things which promote your growth and improve your life both physical and emotional. If this means you need to move forward leaving people behind who are negative, then it's what you must do. Don't look back. If you feel you must explain your motives simply let them know you are moving in a more positive direction and their influence is not a positive influence in your life. It's best you part ways. Good luck, change is hard for many people.

Answer 2

ya its hard, coz we r emotionally attached with them and dont want to separate, even if we try our best, our heart doesnt let us to forget them till it finds someone else more trustworthy as compared to old one

Answer 3

well its not easy, its hard to let go becuz u led yourself to believe that that person is perfetc.

Answer 4

I lost a child (he was stillborn) and I thought I was going to loose my mind! I cried all day,had nightmares at night and I believed that I would never be happy again.

Although our situations are different, we both are coping with loss. I was told that things would be better in time and I thought those people were crazy - but it is true. You don't have to let go, you might always feel some sadness for your loss but you do have to move forward with your life.

You sound like a very caring person, you will find love and friends in your future. Hang in there - time heals if you let it.