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Question

Why is it so hard to let go of someone that's no longer your's?

What can you do? :(

I still love him ..

Answer 1

...look at life and see how you can make it better thinking for yourself...

...as you do that socialize and get a hobby to occupy your mind and hands...

...when socializing listen to other people...

...when you meet someone of interest...using your experience make a better relationship...and a better tomorrow...good luck...

Answer 2

It is  so harrrrrrrrrrr....ddddddd  NOt because  you still love the person but because your ego is badly hurt. It is this ego of yours that is still loving the person and not the real you.

For many ( in such a situation as you)  the only thing they will want to &#039;get back&#039; the person somehow by hook or crook and THEN reject him. The Ms. Ego , in you, would smile triumphantly. This ego is the root cause for many many such situations in life.

See if you can overcome the ego . If you look at this as a defeat for you  , you will not get out of this. . If you  start feeling that this seperation has taken place  for a reason that you are clear about  and that is good for you ultimately , then your mind will come out of it. In due course every action of the person ( who left you)  will make you feel &quot;Thank God, I am out of it for good!&quot;

Answer 3

Believe me, it is because you make it hard. Because you load your mind with the thoughts about him. The best thing to do is to load your mind with other things - do your hobbies, do something that you always want to do, just explore yourself. You&#039;ll get over him.  

Answer 4

Just free urself from the materialistic bondings, feel or experiece peace and freedom instead of stress and wastage of time.

Because you think that person or thing belongs to u but infact it belongs to itself and not u.

If its true love and u truly love him or her then why so unrest. U should forgive and forget and besides u love him so let the feeling or thoughts go away , new ones come and take away all your unrest.

Just think of God and love will perpetuate itself.

Good Question.

Answer 5

It takes time to let go of someone.

Everyone goes through something like that.

If I were you, I probably would not think about that person very much. Maybe you can&#039;t help it. But try, because no one else is going to make the decision of letting him go, except yourself. Try because you do want to let go of him.

If you really need to get your mind off of that person, then distract yourself by keeping yourself busy.

Answer 6

Yes, as you say sometimes it&#039;s really hard to let somebody who you love go.

I had a girlfriend we were very close together after a while I don&#039;t know what happened for sure that I left her and now after more than a year I still think about her about memories we had, about her beatiful face, her smooth skin, her wonderful smile, I still feel sad when I remember I haven&#039;t have her any more.

After all we are humen and so sensitive about our partner.

what can you do the answer is there are two ways:

1.think if there are anyway to be friends again.

2.you have to bare it, I know how hard it is.

I prefer NO1

Answer 7

i know!!! life&#039;s hard!! its best to just leave it and not contact him , it wont be easy but you will get over him!

Answer 8

same for me, except I&#039;m a guy and still love my ex girlfriend, we have become friends thou and that&#039;s a good sign^^

i got angry at my stupid friend who &quot;without meaning it&quot; made her laugh like crazy and i got so ******* jealous. love can make you do crazy things;)

a tip is to try to get neutral with him, boost your friendship a bit.

Answer 9

A functional relationship is about a mutual feeling of love and properly supporting it, anything less is just people torturing each other and that does not sound very loving.

Knowing what to do is the beginning, doing it is harder, but not impossible.  Time to let go and move on with life.