Why is it sometimes so difficult to accept "change" the inevitable?

Question

Why is it sometimes so difficult to accept "change" the inevitable?

Answer 1

On the other hand, every once in a while, we look for change too, especially if we are dissatisfied with the present state of affairs.

It is thus not change as such that we either fear or reject...... we are unable to accept it or even fear it because of our judgment that evaluates it as unfavorable compared to our present state of affairs. In reality, such an evaluation ahead of time is unwarranted since future is uncertain due to numerous factors, many of which may be quite outside our own control. Nevertheless, we continue to make such forward judgments to end up either being apprehensive of or eagerly expectant of changes. This is where a positive outlook helps, since in such a case, a change is managed rather than being feared or resented.

Answer 2

Accepting a change is very painful process,it needs pratical thinking and backed emotionally. We humans are not born to control others but to control ourselves...we are here to change yourself first and then the rest will follow you automatically.

Learning yourself your abilities,your weeknessess your morals,your values understand yourself first and try to bring a change,a change for better living and better understanding of life,you will have to calm your senses,and learn to accept changes happening within yourself and surroundings,analyses what best can be done?...

Change in you is change in world.....

Answer 3

Change my bike, however attached I may be, certainly.

Change my job, certainly. Whyever.

Change my password, most certainly.

Change my looks, a necessity, yes.

Change my view of things, if I'm convinced, why not?

EVEN, change my attitude, a possibility.

Etc.

Change my mother and father, NEVER.

Change my view on patriotism, NEVER.

Change the values I have come to accept, NEVER EVER.

Answer 4

Mind & Heart conflict

Answer 5

humans always tries to remain in safe side and remain secured. nobody wants to take risks.

our cups are filled with our own ideas and concepts. then how can we understand other ideas and accept them

Answer 6

well thats human nature to not accept the change but always saying that change is the only contant on this earth....

Answer 7

coz we don want ne kind ov unhappiness which we fear may accompany d change...we always want 2 stay happy n contended...

Answer 8

As you are continuously playing with your emotions which indeed should be under control. change as you rightly said is 'inevitable', will change you otherwise. So the "difficult to accept" is nothing but the transition stage to change.

Answer 9

Change is inevitable. Change occurs all the time affecting people everywhere, yet few have been so unable to adapt as Emily in William Faulkner’s “A Rose for Emily.” Faulkner shows through Emily what happens when one resists or refuses to accept change. Emily’s active

resistance to change leads the town to have an ambivalent attitude towards her, as she wavers between different generations. Her resistance is also the catalyst for Emily’s seemingly horrific and crazy actions, making it possible to understand how she could have urdered her lover and why she never leaves her house.