Why is it still awkward?

Question

I have been dating this guy for almost 6 months now. It has been awesome...we get along great, our families get along great, he is good to me...etc. But my problem is, well for one when we kiss it is still awkward. It's like we don't know each others kissing styles and we don't know when to stop or keep going...and it becomes awkward. I would think after 6 months things shouldn't be awkward anymore. But they are. I have never had this problem before. Another thing is he never open mouth kisses me. Which is something I like to do. I mentioned something about it to him and then later he did it but that was like 2 weeks ago...he hasn't done it since. I just don't get it. Should I take this as we are not right for eachother? please help.

Answer 1

Maybe You have bad breath?  

Answer 2

maybe he doesn't like girls

Answer 3

maybe he's self-conscious of his breath or teeth, or maybe he hasnt had much experience kissing?

Answer 4

you to sound close. you should be able to tell him that. go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

number one-be honest. tell him all of what you think. ie, you want to open mouth kiss.  ask him why he doesn't-is he uncomfortable to do it, does he know how? be gentle and supportive. make suggestions of how you like it done. maybe he needs some direction?  

Answer 6

Tell him you want some open-mouth! Maybe yall should sit down and just practice.

Answer 7

I would say there is a problem.....if you are talking and he is not listening then the problem is bigger the kissing......I think you should try talking to him again......be more direct and to the point....if he still is not willing to work on it then yes you might not be for each other.

Answer 8

Gosh that's a shame - seriously.  Kissing is important - it's the gate to the sensual and sexual experience and it's just...important.  

I say this thinking you're a mature adult, not a teen.  

Give it a little more time.  Be playful and tell him to "close his eyes and open his mouth,"  then lay one on him - using YOUR style.  See how that goes.  

Hugs, and well...KISSES!  :-)