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Why is it that Men don't like to share their fantasies with their wives?

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Is it that big of a deal to share who and what you fantasize about?

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  1. Most guys fantasies are really out there..maybe too much for a significant other..He's probably worried about you reaction after he tells you


  2. Often the fantasy may not be with them, thus there could be jealousy or somewhat pissed and the nookie will be scarce for awhile.

    In other words, common sense tells the guy to keep his mouth shut if it's a fantasy about another woman.

    If it's not with another woman, I don't see the problem, I share that with my wife.

  3. Because men's fantasies are scary. I asked my husband what his was and this is what he said:

    "To have a woman give me a BJ while sitting on the toilet taking a huge dump."  

    I told him to hire a prostitute

  4. Maybe the wives cannot handle the truth?

  5. Not all men won't share their fantasies.  Some will and some won't.  My ex always had fantasies about me and him and another girl.  He had no problem letting me know this was his fantasy and he also wanted to make it a reality.  

  6. not all men fantasize about other people believe it or not...maybe he is shy or maybe he just doesnt want to admit that he doesnt fantasize because it would be less manly


  7. Honestly, it's because the fantasy often doesn't include the wife, and who is stupid enough to share that?

  8. Because the fantasy does not involve you

  9. I like to cause it's the only way they become reality!

  10. your question makes no sense . not all guys do that .

  11. Because they're PRIVATE! Despite popular belief wives do NOT have to know every single thing about a husband -- especially what's in his dang BRAIN!! Besides, do you really want to hear about how he wants to do your sister?

    Sheeeze.....

  12. because he'll tell you his then you'll blow his a ss out of the water with a really hot one of your own,then then he'll doubt himself and i'll move out,,,,he'll ,,uh,,never mind

  13. Yeah because you might get jealous and/or pissed and they don't want to have that fight.  Also they like to keep those things separated a fantasy is such because it is something that they don't already have and they like it that way, sharing it with you would destroy the privacy and enjoyment they get out of having them.

  14. yeah, imagine the consequences when they do.  are you open and accepting of hearing that he wants to do your sister, or best friend, or his ex wife/gf?  

    have you told him yours?

  15. My husband doesn't like to share with me either.  I think he thinks I'll get mad.  It's frustrating though.

    My question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

  16. Who says?  We share fantasies all the time.  Great fun.

  17. because once you share it is no longer just a fantasy it is out in the open to be judged like a reality.  About 95 or so % of men that are into women have the fantasy of 2 women... maybe he feels  if he tells you that you will laugh?

    what if it is something that repluses you like wanting to be diapered like a baby, Spanked , or beaten . Do you really want to hear that.

    I DO NOT.

  18. well do you really want to know that they're not fantasizing about you?

  19. Because they don't wanna know yours.

  20. they might now say who they fantasize about because that is a totaly loaded question. and as for the what maybe its just too dirty. or they may think it is.

  21. Becuase 90% of guys fantasies is a threesome.

  22. Actually some do...and sometimes, ur better off not knowing...

  23. Trust me you probably would freak out if you just had a little peek.

  24. maybe he could be dreaming of your worst enemy or your BFF thats why maybe some guys won't tell :P  

  25. They'd rather just act on them with other women. Many people believe lust for another person other than your spouse is a sin.

  26. women probably don't want to know what some of those fantasies are so you might want to be glad he doesn't share them

  27. Becuase it involves  with a unicorn and a midget.

  28. becuase their fantasy doesn involve their wife
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