Why is it that i cant conceive???...19 years old..?

Question

ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for like 6 years...we want to have a baby [PLEASE DONT SAY I'M TOO YOUNG]..anyways he was born 1 months premature and well he got this weird thing since he was small [its like your bones are bad..i don't know what is it..]...well i don't know why is it that i cant get pregnant..we've tried a lot...and we don't know why is it..[he's 20]..

thanks =]

Answer 1

How long have you been trying? You won't automatically become pregnant just because you are trying... It takes the average couple 6 months to become pregnant.

I'm 19 and TTC conceive too. We've been charting for 28 months, using ovulation predictor kits and reading cervical mucus. Maybe you could try that too.

We already have an amazing 3 year old that was planned as well. Good luck to you!

Answer 2

This is how I got pregnant, and it only took us 2 weeks LOL ..if you and your partner both have an o****m at the same time, there's more of a chance the sperm will reach its destination LOL.It worked for us. Make sure u guys have s*x every day at least twice a day, and make sure ur not on top,because the sperm just runs down...Best position is missionary ( him on top ) .. Keep trying and don't give up. And it also wont hurt if u guys go get checked, that why there's no stress between u guys. Good luck girl

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Answer 3

If you could provide some more info that would be really helpful.

Are either of you using any meds? RX or otherwise?

Are your menstrual cycles regular?

Answer 4

WOWWW! YOU SOUND JUST LIKE MEE!

my fiance and i have been together for 6 years and i am 19 years old. i been trying to have a baby since 2002 but i havent been lucky until now (i think).

i say, keep trying. thats what i did.

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Answer 5

hi...

there could be alot of different reasons...is his sperm low? calculating your ovulation..your progesterone level is low...or your eggs dont drop down like they should..go to my web site www.delvalobgyn.com

click on infertility and read everything on there..it will be helpful!

good luck!!!

Answer 6

OK I won't say you're to young b/c my sister in law found out she was pregnant at 19. Anyway have you both gone to the doctor and been checked to make sure everything is ok? Both of you should be checked. Unfortunately it does sometimes take a while. DH and I tried for 2.5 yrs and just got pregnant. You may want to try taking your BBT. You could chart on fertilityfriend.com. I did that and in the first month (also bding everyday expect like 3) got pregnant. Since you are ttc start taking prenatal pills. They good to start taking before, during, and after pregnancy. I know it's easier said than done, but try to relax.

Answer 7

how long have you been trying.it takes the average couple 12 months.if its longer than that see your gp for a refferal

Answer 8

If you have been trying for over a year, your next step would be to schedule an appt with the doc.  They'll most likely run some blood tests on you and send your bf in for a sperm analysis.  If you are just seeing if you are getting pregnant and frustrated that you aren't, what might be happening is you are not timing intercourse correctly.  Try to have s*x every day or every other day from CD 7-21.  CD 1 is the first day of your period.  I hope that helps!  Goodluck!

Answer 9

Hi I'm 19 too.

I was ttc #2 for 15 months and I'm finally pregnant.

I have a 3 year old son, then I had 2 miscarriages after I had him so I'm hoping this pregnancy goes well.

I also worried because it had been along time trying and nothing would happen.

Everybody would tell me to relax and that it would happen when I least expected it.

I would be mad at those comments because it was very hard for me to relax or forget about it.

Every month I thought I was pregnant and every month I would look at the baby stuff that I would buy.

It was very frustrating.

I started to relax more and I wouldn't go through baby stuff anymore so I could forget about it a little.

I stopped stressing and I even put my calendar away so I wouldn't know when was I suppose to get my period so that way I just won't be waiting on missing it.

It was so frustrating and I was so anxious until I just decided to give up for a little while.

I decided that becuase my brother's grad party was coming up and I hadn't had fun in a long long time.

Every time there would be a party I wouldn't drink or do anything becuase I always thought I was pregnant.

But this time I said NO...this is a once in a lifetime party for me and 'm going to have a lot of fun.

So the party came...I drank and danced and had a really good time around my family.

My period wasn't due until like a week or so after the party so I wasn't too worried, I actually didn't think I was pregnant this time. I thought to myself that how can I be pregnant this time out of all the other months I've been trying?....Well guess what?

I guess it's true when they told me that it was gonna happen when I least expected it. I missed my period that month but didn't even notice because like I said, I had put my calendar away...I just kind of estimated when I was gonna get it and I still didn't think it was possible.

I just thought that it was mind that was playing tricks with me again.

I was actually worried about being pregnant this time becuase I drank.

But turned out I was pregant!!

I couln't beleive it!!

I went to the doctor right away to confirm it and to make sure everything was ok becuase of the alcohol.

I am now almost 11 weeks pregnant and my abby is prefectlly fine.

GOO LUCK!!

and don't give up.