Why is it that if a man has more than 1 girlfriend or girl he sleeping with its okay hes a pimp..............?

Question

but when a female does it shes a hoe and a s**t?? what if shes tired of guys playing her or cheating on her and she want revenge lol

Answer 1

How do you get revenge on a guy with multiple partners, when there are more available women than men? The fact is, if you toss him out, he will get another, and another etc. Men want their women to be true and clean. That is just nature, and maybe it's not right but if is for sure a lot of fun for a rare commodity, the american male.

Answer 2

just a double standard

you're only what you answer to

Answer 3

Yeah I know what you mean.

My friend is pretty promiscious..

She calls me almost every day because I lend her an ear to her problems.

This virgin (me) preaches to her.. not because she's promiscious, but because she often has s*x without protection, etc.

But I know that's a different issue..

Plus she describes herself as a 'player'.. so I don't see her as a victim to some guy, although in the end they may be playing each other.

I don't judge women who explore their sexual side.. just as long as they're not doing it because of low self esteem issues etc, and as long as they're not the victims (not saying the men should be the victims..)

But basically, respect and consentualism..

Answer 4

Read Ethical s**t.  

Answer 5

More of historical answer. A long time ago a man with several wives was acceptable, can stil be in some places and some religions. The thought of a woman being with 2 or more men was viewed in the neagative. Some dirty words are very old words too, but they are generally made towards women and not men.

Society has changed and women's status/roles have changed (good) but men haven't changed and that's when all that c**p comes out.

  

Answer 6

Double standard.

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Some men get off on making women feel and look inferior.

Answer 7

Sorry but two wrongs dont make a right.. and he is not a pimp he is a STD provider.

Answer 8

Double standards.  I consider them hoes too (the men).  Like in the song Like A Boy by Ciara.

Answer 9

That's just the way it works out because men seem to think that it's ok but if they switched up roles with women, the rules would change. (See Ciara "like a boy" video.)

Answer 10

thats not true really....

when a guy bags madd girls, he's a pimp, but it only impresses other guys, not girls. not that many women i know have been impressed when they found out that a guy has slept with 20 women.

when a girl sleps around she's considered a hoe because...well...thats what hoes do, sleep around. only hoes get paid and she does it for free. If she's tired of guys playin her or cheatin, she needs to become a better judge of character and associate herself with less triflin n!ggaz.

Becoming a hoe wont get revenge because A) most guys never become serious with someone they bagged the first night, so they wont care and B) she still wont be getting back at the men who did her wwrong, since they already been left and they never really cared about her or what she thought in the first place. And if she comes across a guy who really DID care for her and she decided to play him, that's her loss and she should feel like an @ss for losing someone who really cared

The only way becoming a hoe would ever get revenge on men is if she gave them an STD, and that still wouldnt work because she would have the disease too.

If a woman is sexually active and has multiple partners thats her perogative and i aint gonna judge. But if she gonna have s*x wit me and then leave in order to PURPOSEFULLY hurt me then f*ck her, i hope she gets aids

Answer 11

I don't care if I am number 2.  Of course I have no money and am rather lazy, and fat, and horny, but I don't mind being number 2, 3, 4, 5, whatever as long as I have some fun too.

I call women with more than one lover in her life, "giving."