Why is it that just because I eat a lot...

Question

and I am big (not fat) my extended family think they can just talk to me anyhow when it comes to food? Why can't they just try to understand that the only person in my nuclear family who doesn't eat a lot is my mum? Why do they just like to look down on me just because I eat a lot and I am not skinny and I am really tall?

Answer 1

MS. J. You should listen to those people because you will fiend that they aright, when you reach a little older and start to have a problem with weight, If you have fat friends who tells you, they are OK, & they loved it, well they are lying to you, because I have never have any prob. with weight but I have associates who tells me in one & one talking that they wish that they were my size witch in very trim and fit so you should curved your eating & also what you eat, & do not use food for fun & let your self go, that is not funny @ all.

You are behaving as if those around you are bugging you for your own good and it could be how you behave in public as well so try and clean

up your act my dear. I do not know young you are but you sound young so you must listen to those who are older than you because the

saying, that goes. BEEN THERE DONE THAT It is a fact, those who are older than you have seen more than you so they are just leading you & showing you the correct road so you should listen to most of US OK little MS??. GOOD  LUCK TO YOU!.

Answer 2

Tell them that what you eat is your business and you will let them know when you need their nutritional advice - also they should let you know when they become nutritional consultants so that they can charge for their advice which they keep giving for free! lol lol  

Answer 3

you seem upset at what they say, I love my food all kinds and if it ment that they would stop if I didn't eat so much then keep being nasty, nothing people say would influence anything I done in life, and it shouldn't you people are prejudice against all most every thing so just ignore them and enjoy what you like in life      

Answer 4

when they talk to you about how much you eat ..they are in away concerned about your health but sometimes it can come out as they are being mean. I know they feeling i went to see my grandmother after 4 yrs of being way and the first thing she told me was that i had let myself go. I am bigger then other members of my family. But i have learned to take what they say and not let it get the best of me. if you feel fine about how much you are eating then don't let their words hurt you. Not everyone is going to be a size 5 and as long as you are healthy and keeping active then how much eat should not matter.  

Answer 5

jealousy?.

Answer 6

ignore them and just be happy as you are