Why is it that most girls think I'm cute, but they only like joking around with me.....?

Question

They're comfortable around me, but I'm not really comfortable aroudn them. Why is it that most girls feel so comfortable around me so fast when I'm not around them?

Answer 1

cause they think you are g*y... or your just imature and they think of you as a little brother..

probably the second one.... but id have to see what you look like to say for sure

Answer 2

well most of the guys think its cause your g*y and all the girls think its cause your...well...you know (i would listen to the girls). just try to hang out with them

Answer 3

because you are a *****! lol im just kidding, just open up, i think your just living in your barrier right now and you gotta break it down, they showed you that they ar efriendly so just be friendly back

Answer 4

Well they could think you're g*y...

Answer 5

Take it as compliments that girls are comfortable around you.  However, how do you know that they too are comfortable without you being around if you're not around?  Don't think too much and think positive!

Answer 6

Well To answer ur question:

You just have to open up, be ur self..........

joke around with them .........it'll help ease the tension, you feel when ur around girls.

Sorry I couldn't be more help.

Answer 7

The answer is in your question...   You have to be comfortable around them.

Answer 8

stop them from being too comfortable. You will no longer have that problem anymore.

Answer 9

well ur not really making urself clear enough  

Answer 10

are you the funny guy? because i know how you feel. i'm the funny girl and guys ALWAYS love joking around with me and they say i'm cute but they never actually want a relationship. sometimes, it sucks being the cute funny one. but someone has to do it. haha:)

Answer 11

you sound like a friend zone kind of guy. be more assertive with your feelings or hit on them. if not that then maybe you just hang with stupid chicks and need to find smarter girls

Answer 12

hormones from puberty can mess you up. also they may be stringing you along to do things for them because they want to.

Answer 13

I should now since i probably do this to guys too. We feel really comfortable around you because your approachable. Your probably not that intimidating, or your cursed with adorable looks. Either way this gives you a HUGE advantage over other guys. Once in a while you should flirt a bit back, you'd be surprised what could happen. I really hope this helps, good luck to you!!

Answer 14

you are probably adorable you "sad sam"....

Answer 15

They're mature.

Answer 16

Whats wrong with being cute? Girls say that to flirt around with you and its actually a good thing that girls feel comfortable around you. Don't worry yourself too much. Have fun!

Answer 17

it is because u r a boy of different type

and girls need these types of friends around them to be feel safe in all aspects

i too have boyfriend which is very much similar to u and he too also not feels comfortable with girls but girls feel but it is quite uniqe of him that he is comfortable with me always

this is because i unerstand him and i know what he likes that is why.

so make ur self clear to them and then ask them to be around u and then surely u will become comfortable with then

Answer 18

Probally cuz they look at you as a girlfriend and not a person they want to have s*x with.

Answer 19

Maybe your a chill guy and girls like your personality and you are not ready to socialize with girls.Talk to them and try to get used to them.That is when you truly know if you are comfortable around them or not.