Why is it that most people i know think that they have the right to tell me what to do ???i'm sick of it ....

Question

what can i do to tell others to mind their own busness ....i tell them but they don't listen to me ....and i'm so sick of it all

Answer 1

Ugh, I know what you mean ]:

You just gotta stick up for yourself. Some people are just naturally bossy and no one ever told them 'no.' so they just have the mind that they are in charge.

If you tell them no one time, they will be sorta shocked and maybe get the point.

Don't let people walk all over you. It's okay once in a while and if you are okay with it, but if it's annoying you seriously, you have to tell them off. Don't like, curse at them though! Just tell them that you know what to do and you don't need them to remind you.

Older kids think that they have the authority and sometimes they do, but also, you are in control of yourself.

A way that I tell them to mind their own business is:

- say in a sorta snooty tone "uh-huh." it might sting them, but it'll get them to leave you alone.

- just look at them and give them a half smile. but don't listen to them. do what you were going to do anyway.

- show them that your way is correct.

You have to be direct sometimes, tell them that you are old enough to freakin make your own decisions. Tell them that you're not dumb, they need to stop telling you directions, you can think for yourself. Being sorta sharp and mean once will give them the point. Good luck with dealing with them =/