Why is it that no matter how bad my mom treats me ..?

Question

I always try to get along with her and talk to her ..

I live with her and I'm 18 years old with a 5.5 year old daughter .. but she has done so many things that aren't right towards me and some how i always seem to forget about it and I don't understand why.

Answer 1

Its because you love her.

Answer 2

Because she is your mother and you still want her approval.

Answer 3

Well she has been there for you since you were 13 and had a kid of your own. Not only has she raised you but really also your daughter.

I am sure you feel guilty as you should.

But that still does not give your mom the right to act disrespectfully towards you if you are now acting respectful.

For you mom to milk that guilt is emotionally abusive of her.

We all seek are parents approval even more so if we are ashamed of our past actions. Shame on your mom for offering a helping hand then preying on the insecurities of you having to accept it caused.

Your mom by helping you when you had your baby at such a young age does not give her the right to a lifetime of abusing you.

After all you will education your daughter better and more honestly so she does not have a baby at 13. Which should be enough for your mom to respect you.

But no matter what kids instinctively seek their parents approval and love rather they deserve it or not.

Answer 4

itz cuz she iz ur mom nd u luv her datz y u keep trying 2 get along wit her

Answer 5

Do you know that in child abuse court cases, the judge passes down the sentence and the parent is being hauled away from the courtroom with handcuffs on to jail and they have shown the children crying and saying "No, no, I want my daddy/mommy!"    

One or both parents can beat the living c**p, or even worse to children and they will still defend and cry out for their abuser because no matter what, there is that bond between parent and child always.

People don't understand how a child could cry out for their abuser but it happens all the time.  We always want the love and support of our parents, no matter what or what age-just a fact even if some say that's not true, it is.