Why is it that......???

Question

the only boys who approach me or ask me out or for my phone number are never my type??? this boy just aske me to go out to eat with him but i only like him as a friend. He is a nice person and evrtyhing but i dont like him in that way. The boys who are my type dont even seem to notice me...im so confused any suggestions anybody???

Answer 1

When you refer to men of your type, do you mean in terms of physical appearance?  Well do not make this aspect of finding a mate too important.  Obviously, physical attraction is an exciting starting point but these feelings tend to be temporary (fade with time), other factors such as personality, morality, and ambition play a crucial role.

Answer 2

You're friendly with him, the boy that asked you out, so he dares to ask you out. The guys you like doesn't even notice you so the thought of asking you out never enters their minds. You have to be seen to be remembered.

You can't stick to the guys you like as glue since that will make them run the other way, but there is still ways that you can make them see you and hopefully remember you long enough to ask you for a date. Be nice and friendly, talk a little to them about some small things. Do say things that reminds them that you see them, things that flatters them. I saw you did [this or that] good thing. That's a really nice shirt that you are wearing. And so on. If you're not used to it then you'll feel quite silly to begin with but it will become more and more natural as time goes on.

Also remember that there is a difference between the type you want and the type you truly need in life. =)