Why is it that some of us can't ever catch a break while others get to glide through life ?

Question

Why is it that some of us can never do right by society? I asked a question earlier about a friend that has constantly ignored me. I finally let go and ignored her phones call, and now I'm a brat that's causing all the problems in our relationship. I've tried for years to make it work; I've bought gifts for nothing in return; remembered her birthday when I couldn't even get a wish. I just don't understand how some people can do whatever they want and others have to take it for the rest of ourlives or we're "causing all the problems."

Oh, and I apologized several times (about what I don't know I did wrong), asked her what was wrong. She said nothing. She continually lied to me about stuff. I just hate this world b/c it seems like the ppl that try are always critized.

Answer 1

To perhaps understand more about why some people sail through life and others don't get the breaks a good book to read is The Nature Of Personal Reality by Jane Roberts.  It is one of the Seth series.  Perhaps your situation is self-created to you will learn how to handle it wisely and permanently and then it need not have to happen again, the lesson was learned.

On the other hand one of the simple and important lessons of  like is to AVOID THE S***HEADS.

Answer 2

this is happening to me also in my life. i asked my husband why me? and he said you know what is important and that is family. but then i say i need friends. to get friends you first have to like yourself. people that hurt i say are toxic people you don't need this join groups that you like. and maybe go back to school and just hang some were were their are people not so mean. imam trying also. so is my son he got burned being nice now he takes it slow and find out what this person is about. don't be hard on yourself you are good person. just don't give to much to the other person until you know them a little better and peace be with you always.

Answer 3

You must develop a backbone and get yourself some friends who will respect you.

Why is it OK for this girl to treat you the way she does?

It's up to you; you are the captain of your own destiny. The bad stuff will fall by the wayside once you begin to stand up for yourself.

Dump the lying bi*ch.

Answer 4

We have all been there,you just haven't decided to leave yet.Dump your friend because she isn't one and you don't need the stress.You will meet others,it is the way it goes.Nothing wrong with being nice not enough of it these days but be not a doormat either.Just a thought.

Answer 5

Sounds like you can't do right no matter how you try, so don't try any longer.

Answer 6

They make better decisions.