I was not raised in a military household and as a sign of respect, I always say things like "Yes, Sir..." or "No, Ma'am..." and people, especially those over 50 or 60, seem to object to being acknowledged as 'Sir' or 'Ma'am'.
I have been told by some men not to call them 'Sir'' because they work for a living' and a number of women have told me that ''Ma'am' is how you address a female in the military and they aren't in the military and never have been.'
Can anyone tell me why it is NOT proper to address someone as 'Sir' or 'Ma'am' (I am just meaning it as a simple acknowledging address and don't want to offend anyone) and what the meanings of 'Sir' having to do with 'because I work for a living.' means?
I'm confused.
Thanks for your answers.
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