Why is it that when guys sleep with as many girls as they want they usually get congratulated about it, but..?

Question

If a girl sleeps with a few guys, they get called s***s by both girls and guys?

Answer 1

Society has set a double standard, frowns upon women doing that but not guys. I reckon stop the judgmental attitude, its no one's place to attach a label to you for this sort of lifestyle choice

Answer 2

They get congratulated by other GUYS. Girls for the most part would be disgusted by a guy who has slept with dozens of girls.

Answer 3

It's the Idea that women get all used up and men do not. You are right.  For guys (me included) the amount of women we've done is a way of calculating our manliness.

Answer 4

well...it is a double stand..in truth..

but I think why woman are held more higher because there is a perception...that woman are better than men...and therefore more is expected from them.

You see...the unwritten rule is that woman are beautify, kind, gentle, holy...in a sense...

When they do something like sleeping around...they compromise that beauty. People expect men to be pigs...

Now..I'm not saying I agree with it...but if you think about it

it makes sense why there is that double standard. Now...I think the standard should be high anyway....because it keeps the woman in check. Fear of having a bad reputation is away of keeping yourself in check. That should be the same for men too. You see fear is a good thing....cause when there is no fear...there is no fear of consequence...and then people do whatever they want which ends up hurting someone else and themselves. There is nothing wrong with shame. I feel shameful on my misdeeds.

Another analogy would be...if you are the oldest in the family...normally you take the most heat from Mom and Dad....cause more is expected from the oldest...so I think more is expected from a woman...because THEY ARE BETTER THEN MEN.

it's just my thoughts.

Answer 5

cause a womans ***** will become all loose and **** if they sleep around but a guy's p***s will be the same.

Answer 6

There was once an interesting answer to this.  In one way, it's because it is EASY for a woman to find a guy to sleep with.  Men have to work at it to convince a woman to let them essentially m********e inside their body.  So it is more of an accomplishment for men, in a sick sort of way.

Then there is the age old fear of female sexuality, in that if females were allowed to have s*x as freely as men then they might not be faithful to their husbands, and men might have to raise someone else's child.  Females might prefer to have s*x with the milkman instead of dusting the furniture while wearing pearls and a Dior gown.  Females might have s*x with enough men to know that "your willy is too small to please me and I have had better s*x than what you can provide - so - to the LEFT!!!"  

It is interesting to wonder what the world would be like if women weren't SHAMED away from their natural sexuality by slurs like ":****" and "w***e."  

It is just a sick and antiquated method of controlling women.  Ignore it and live your own life as you see fit.

Answer 7

Women will spread rumors about other women, it is just cattyness besides, men do get "bad" reputations too.

Answer 8

A **** is a **** no matter their gender.

Answer 9

Double standard.

The answer below mine speaks the truth though.

Answer 10

I think '****' is just a term used by people who aren't comfortable with thier own sexuality.  I'm a sexually active, single guy, and I seek like-minded women.  I don't think that they are s***s...they just enoy having fun, as do I.

Answer 11

Double standard.

Although, I noticed that people exaggerate sleeping with a "few guys" to be 50 or hundred when they talk about you.

Answer 12

Double Standard. I think a man who brags about how many chicks he sleeps with, is childish and insecure. So only insecure, childish folk congratulate a man for that. I think it's great to a be a man that is attractive to many ladies, but a man who's pride is from his "stat sheet' of how many women he sleeps with must not be much of a prize himself to feel proud about "gaining" so many women, because if he is something of equal worth, the number of women he sleeps with would not be seen as an accomplishment by him and he apparently doesn't have much else going for him or else his pride would be geared much more on his career, talent, skills, hobbies, etc. But that's just my 2 cents.