Why is it that when.....

Question

u meet some 1 new and u start getting 2 know them but

somehow something happends and don't "click" 4 wat evr reason

..y is it that some people ignore d other person instead of saying

the reason y u don't want 2 be around that certain person?

even though the truth hurts wouldn't it be better 2 b straight 4ward about

it??????

(how would you know u did something wrong and try fixing it rather than guessing and fixing something that doesn't need 2 get fixed?)

Answer 1

it depends on the person. I personally can not handle making someone feel bad about themselves or feel bad period. Lots of people can not handle the truth, if the person asked me why then i would tell them, otherwise i would just casually back off and spare their feelings, I'm not saying that is the right choice it is just how i am.

Answer 2

Many people don't want to hurt the others feeling so they basically don't say anything.

Answer 3

Yes, that's an interesting question. People come onto YA and get everything off their chests and yet in person, we tend to be afraid of saying what we feel, but tactfully.It would be better for both people, if one had the honesty to say, "I don't mean to hurt your feelings, but I don't think we have very much in common. Are you feeling the same way?" Then maybe you can both laugh and move onto speaking with someone else.

Answer 4

Great question...I think there are several answers to it

1.  A lot of people are uncomfortable with hurting other people's feelings and find it easier to ignore them rather than explain to them why things didn't work out.

2.  Some people are just jerks.

3. Some people don't want to admit why lost interest in someone else, because it might affect what other people think of them, especially if their reasons are perceived as shallow or mean.