Why is it that when someone's dream is full filled another's is crushed?

Question

Alright so i have a dream.

The dream is moving out from where

i live.... so my aunt told me

i was supposed to go live with my aunt at

Baltimore so i was like ok lets do it!

so i was VERY ilusionated about the whole thing!

i was SO exited until.

my aunts husband said that they were moving back here....

in that moment my dream was crushed spit and crushed again...

what is the big difference of Puerto Rico with Baltimore?

like its the same living everywhere though i wanted to start a new life

so now i am hoping for something they don't want.

they don't want the red team to win government again nor the green team THOUGH i desire for ANY of those 2 to win. because i really don't

want to stay here i know I'm being selfish but i don't care i want to live in the USA instead of here.....

Why does this happen? why do people get their dreams full filled and i get them crushed because of them?!

Answer 1

For everything recognizable in life, there is a polar opposite. The concept of light would not exist if we did not know dark because we would have nothing to compare it to. Hate could not be recognized without the existence of love. Short cannot exist without tall. Fat cannot exist without skinny. Black cannot exist without white. This is all relevant to your situation. You would not understand the concept of having a dream fulfilled if dreams had never been crushed. Try focusing on the positive aspects of the situation instead of dwelling in the negative. A ship at sea for many years picks up thousands of barnacles that attach themselves to the bottom of the ship and eventually weigh it down, becoming a threat to its safety. Such a ship ultimately needs its barnacles removed, and the least expensive and easiest way is for the ship to harbor in a freshwater port, free of salt water. Soon the barnacles become loose on their own and fall off. The ship is then able to return to sea, relieved of its burden. You are carrying around barnacles in the form of mistakes, regrets, and pain from the past. Perhaps you need to allow yourself to soak in fresh water for a while.

Answer 2

There can only be one winner. Sometimes it's you, and sometimes it's not.