Why is it that women hate the good guys so much?

Question

I mean, if women want to date and marry abusers and cheaters, then go right ahead. No one is stopping you. I just don't understand why women are always bullying men who aren't abusive and unfaithful. Why don't they just leave them alone?

Answer 1

women love a man who is a challenge. they get bored very quick with a butt kissing man who sucks up to them and treats them like queens because it's a sign of insecurity which is a major turn off for women.

when i was a teenager, my biggest problem with girls was the ones i liked i couldn't hold on to and the ones i didn't like i couldn't get rid of.

i found out later that the reason for this was because of how i behaved. the ones i liked,  i would kiss the ground they walked on and would do everything i could to keep them around whereas the ones i didn't like, i didn't try to impress and was stand offish and aloof with them.

i was a challenge to the ones i didn't like which turned them on all the more and by kissing the other ones behinds made me look weak and needy which turned them off.

you don't have to be an abusive or unfaithful jerk to keep a woman around, you just need to show them that you aren't intimidated by them and not be afraid to cancel dates or have an opinion that differs from her's. in other words don't be a butt kisser, be a challenge.

Answer 2

you know I ask that question all the time, and have yet to get a good answer, all I get is the good guy is a wuss

Answer 3

I don't hate good guys.

I just find them boring.

Answer 4

for one, not all women are the same maybe it is the ones you attract or the ones you are exposed to. Every man and woman goes through the phase in which they want the bad boy or girl and eventually they grow out of it realizing that is not what fits them. The so called good guy gets trampled on only because he allows to be trampled on . I don't know where you're getting this assumption..if its from experience or judging by other people's experience... but to sum up what I said all women are not like that.

Answer 5

I think it's based on fear because of mistrust. The saying "If it's too good to be true..." applies. Women, in general, when they do put their faith in a 'good' man, are just waiting for the other shoe to drop and the man's emotional game-playing and excess baggage come out.

Men do it too, though; equal opportunity fear and mistrust.

There are many songs about not condemning the new love for what past loves have done.  

Answer 6

Some women don't respect men who don't treat them like dirt. A man who is a jerk is considered a challenge.

Answer 7

A bad boy and a good man that's the key.  And women don't like men who wine.  

Answer 8

We live on the play ground of lust and sin. The women you're talking about equate good guys as being boring. It's their lose, not yours. When their old, gray and wrinkled they'll wish they would have settled for stability instead of futility.

Answer 9

That's not true, I like good guys. It's just that sometimes being a little naughty is appealing, sometimes good guys get boring but in general I prefer them.

Answer 10

I would be careful about using words like "always" and "hate" and stereotyping an entire gender, you might offend someone. Just because you don't abuse someone doesn't necessarily make you a "good guy". It sounds as if you have formed this opinion based on personal experience. If a woman is a bully, she may have a personal problem or perhaps she may have a man that likes to be dominated. There is often more to people and relationships than meets the eye and a wise person doesn't make judgments with little or no facts. Granted, there are some people who get away with bad behavior (just look at Hollywood), but you need to be more specific about which women are doing this "bashing" to receive an accurate answer. I personally wouldn't bash anyone without a valid reason.