Why is it that women have so much hatred of good guys?

Question

I mean, if women want to date and marry abusers and cheaters, then go right ahead. No one is stopping you. I just don't understand why women are always bullying men who aren't abusive and unfaithful. Why don't they just leave them alone?

Answer 1

right on bro.... b*****s

Answer 2

All women are different.

Not all of them hate good guys.

A lot of women want a good guy, but who have a tuff guy edge.

They don't want a sissy who can't stand up for himself and protect her.

Me personally, when i'm older, i want a good guy who is faithful, not abusive and treats me like i am the only women in the world he sees.

I'm with you when you say you don't understand why women are with men who hurt them and don't bother with the nice guys, though.

Answer 3

Some women enjoy abuse. Some women like to feel overpowered. And some women like it so maybe they can feel something.

I hate the abusers and cheaters. My husband is the nice guy...my husband is amazing. We have a fabulous marriage.

And thats why we as the strong, self respecting women whom have a lot of self esteem, leave those azzholes for the women whom don't.

Answer 4

Wow, it's not ALL women, because I frankly have no use for users/abusers/jerks.  The bad thing is, there are so many of them out there, it's hard to sift through them.

But, yes, they shouldn't be bullys to guys.  

The only thing I can say, is a guy shouldn't ALLOW himself to be bullied.  Move on, and chalk one up for experience, I guess.

Answer 5

Alot of women are insecure and think they deserve less when they deserve so much more. Not all women are like this. for example, I am not like that. Where I live its hard to find a guy that is faithful and is not abusive, some women think they can change a guy but cant.  

Answer 6

LOL why do you guys always think that's what we want. I think the older I get the better man I want. don't get me wrong between 18-21 I was a mess I just wanted a hot guy. Now that I'm 25 I want the whole package Looks, Success, Personality, and definitely not abusive or unfaithful. There is somebody out there for everybody go find the one that wants you and stop worrying about the ones who marry the wrong person.  

Answer 7

hi miles!

i think its because u just happen to meet woman who have been in relationships previously with men who have abused and mistreated them so badly that they tend to strike out before they get hit first.

i don't think that sometimes they even aware that they are doing it miles to be honest! if u sat down and actually talked to that particular woman and found out about her past u would find that out, just reassure her from the start that your not like that miles and let her know that your not a bully and abuser it will take a bit of time before she trust you, because u have too also remember that's what all bully's and abusers tell u when they first enter a relationship also that will never hit u and treat u bad, but then they do, and its too late!!

think about it? its like a puppy that's been whipped by its master constantly then all of a sudden the master wants to play nice but the puppy doesn't understand why?

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Answer 8

If this happens to you, you need to learn to stand up for yourself and put them in their place.  There is nothing WRONG with refusing to take abuse from anyone - in fact, it is one of the best ways to earn instant respect.  Nobody respects a person who just sits there and takes someones bad mouthing or bullying.  

Answer 9

A lot of women are stupid so instead of being mr nice guy slap her around  and call her sally.

Answer 10

I really don't think that's always the case.

I am in a long-term relationship with a nice guy, and he is the best thing in my life.

You shouldn't be saying that "all women" are like that.  

Answer 11

Oh I don't.  A good man is a blessing.  I have one.  All flakes and players....Hasta la Vista..........

Answer 12

im not sure how to really answer this quiestion in a reason you will understand, but sometimes girls like it when they feel controll'd but not in the matter as in abuse! its just some nice guys are kinda TOO nice which makes girls feel a "boss" or even "the one with the pants in the relationship" and they dont really feel protected, girls want a guy that can protect her not the other way around

either that or some girls are just stupid and wana get punched in the face

Answer 13

Because you are not confident in your self.

I am a good guy but I learned that women need you to be confident and able to make decissions. So the fact is most "nice guys" Are weak and not sure of them selves so they end up being "Friends" or "Love ya like  a brother" or in your case they get to be the victim of ":man bashing"

If you use your good guy skills correctly you will be able to find a great relationship. Be sweeet and kind but step up when you do not agree, make decisions, most chicks hate it when you put the burdon of planning on them. If you are more in control it will be easier to assert your self as a man and still be a good guy!

Also depending on the age group of women you are talking about, a lot of young girls have the bad boy thing going.

Try to get a more mature woman to break you in. This will build you up.

She does'nt even have to be super hot.  LEARN MY SON.]

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This is up to you.

Stop being a victim!